She’s 21. She’s pretty trad 4 months pregnant and we have a 1 year old son. I’ve noticed that her boobs are starting to sag and I am extremely worried because of how young she is (we are). When we met she was a 10/10 and I was a 4/10. Now I’m a 6.85/10 and she’s a 9.2/10. My rating is more subjective while hers it’s objective. Anyway, I just don’t feel attracted to her that much, it’s like when i did the deed with her a few times, that’s all I cared about. I tell her to wear a bra in the house and when she sleeps, she talks back. Whenever she kisses me I don’t feel anything anymore, like it’s my duty, I’m not attracted to her anymore even tho she’s an incredibly beautiful and everything I’ve ever wanted. What do I have?.

do you like her soul

>>33315242 (OP)
whatever, just divorce and then your son is going to grow up as just another loser. Find another wife with A cups so the will never sag

>>33315251
Of course I love her but I never tell her. I never tell anyone I love them. Idk I guess I find it weird

>>33315242 (OP)
Outside of a boob job not much you can do, breasts tend to sag with breastfeeding

>>33315268
so you like her only for her body?

>>33315264
My wife has huge round boobs. They’re still intact but they’re starting . I love them, that’s what I attracted me to her

so you like her only for her body
and you kinda did realize before the marriage that she thinks that it's not that you like her only for her body

She isn't as high as 9.2 to anyone but you considering she has a child now. And you've already secured your legacy. Get mistresses to keep things fresh and divorce her for a younger wife once you hit 30.

poor woman

>>33315285
You can get her to do a breast lift, but then she'll have visible scars on her boobs

>>33315242 (OP)
>I tell her to wear a bra in the house and when she sleeps, she talks back
You could take her shopping for more comfortable bras

>>33315301
>>33315297
>>33315280
I don’t like her just cause of her body, obviously as a horny 15 year old male, that’s what attracted me. We both lost our virginity to ourselves after marriage. We did what was right, especially me because I pushed for these things to happen. I love her a lot but my entire life I’ve been a loner (I hate humans) but 1 only childhood friend called me a misanthrope and idk what that means. Because of my job I’m always away from home but I can’t stand the fact that I have to put in the work, like I have to hear her telling me stories or when I’m trying to get her attention, when she does that stupid little voice talking to my son for some reason my blood pressure rises and boils and it gets me angry. I just feel like I’m on the edge and I don’t tell me to seek consul (I don’t believe in it and due to my job I can’t)
>>33315299
No trust me she’s that, the fact that she accepted to marry me baffled everyone lol. Thank god I had a glow up

>>33315301
>>33315299
>>33315280
I sincerely apologize for my poor writing, I have not slept in 55 hours straight

>>33315314
>makes my blood boil
sounds like you're gonna kill her one day

>>33315242 (OP)
Somebody had to breed and raise the next generation of goyim nigger cattle. Most normies will happily step up to the plate and wage their life away for a chance to reproduce. Now you are stuck with the bill for the rest of your life, I'm just glad that's not me.

>>33315242 (OP)
Wow!
OP it kinda sounds like you’re feeling dissatisfied because you’ve “won” and now there’s no conflict or struggle to motivate you in your relationship.

It also desperately sounds like you pursued her out of a desire to show you could win her, not out of genuine (?) love.

I can’t read the thoughts inside your head, but everything you’ve written here just shows frustration and disappointment. You’re fixated on her breasts sagging because it’s a marker of her now being less “desirable” and sexy, which then is projected onto your view of yourself, because now the woman you’ve won isn’t hot enough anymore.

Do you like yourself? Also is your job the type that drops you if you admit to mental health issues, like the military or aviation?

>>33315242 (OP)
What's the point of even trying with moids when they're all like this?

She gives you children and you now find her unattractive because her body is naturally changing/aging?

It's impossible to win. It's why I stopped trying. Thank God I never got pregnant with my only ex because he was just as demonic as the rest of you, and unfortunately my brain still loves him after all this time.

>>33315476
You’re right about the winning thing, at first she thought I was crazy and rejected but I someone convinced her to start her life with me. I was so happy when I won. But I can’t control these feelings. And yes I’m an airline pilot. I feel so much mental exhaustion, I’m extremely pissed off, in extremely angry, I hate my life, I hate how I could barely feel love, I hate how I don’t care about no one, I hate this society and “normies”

>>33315488
I’m not demonic, and like I said, she’s done a great job, she’s stayed really skinny and she still looks like when we were 17. But I’m noticing a little sag which concerns me due to her age (21).

>>33315242 (OP)
>married and had kids only because of physical attraction
do normies really?

>>33315522
You never intended to live with this woman for the rest of your lives if you're complaining about her body after 4 years and 2 pregnancies and already lost attraction for her. That is in fact demonic.

>>33315535
Her body is fine like I said, and I meant attraction in a general sense. I just feel angry and pissed off. Especially when she talks to our 1 year old in the little coddle girly voice, I had to leave the house today because my blood pressure raised so quickly and I had evil thoughts. I feel like she isn’t doing her wifely duties, she doesn’t care about me. I only had like a year when she actually loved me and always cared about me
>>33315531
I’m not a normie at all, I’m angry in life because how much I hate normies and I how I have to deal with them.

>>33315540
>I had to leave the house today because my blood pressure raised so quickly and I had evil thoughts. I feel like she isn’t doing her wifely duties, she doesn’t care about me. I only had like a year when she actually loved me and always cared about me
anon... you need sleep, talk to a psychologist and also talk to her. don't tell anyone about the "evil thoughts" but talk about your feelings and stuff

tell psychiatrist about your evil thoughts

>>33315546
>>33315551

I can’t talk to doctors because I’m an airline pilot

>>33315497
I knew you were a pilot! God. I work in aviation and dealt with your type so much. I say that with affection. You’re a strange crowd.

Listen, I get it. It genuinely takes a shitload of grind to become a pilot. The certifications and training alone, not to mention the amount of time required. And it’s a constant grind to stay competitive, and it’s also not easy to expect other people to understand the mental toll it takes.

I think you need to talk to some of your colleagues. Do you have any friends or a mentor to talk to about your current work stress?

As for your emotional disconnect and lack of feeling - you’re probably hitting burn out. And your wife’s breasts probably aren’t actually the issue, it’s just an easy detail to blame and bitch about.

I also think you need to invest in your relationship with your wife. Think about reasons you like her and ways she makes your life easier. Talk to her.

And maybe take a moment to fucking breathe dude. This industry will chew you up.

>>33315540
You’re jealous of your kids and the loss of your wife’s full attention. You need to have someone babysit and spend time with just the two of you. Making a marriage work means also making time for just yourselves.

>>33315560
No I have zero friends and all my colleagues hate me. I’m not a very likeable person. But it is my wife, I’m angry at her.

>>33315596
Yeah that’s also not surprising. The aviation industry is surprisingly insular and everyone talks shit.

I’m saying this to be honest, not hurtful. I can tell you are not a very likeable person. But I would say that it’s not something that’s fixed or impossible to change.

Actually, I kind of wonder if you’re sabotaging yourself in all of this. You’ve got a competitive but worthwhile job, in a cutthroat industry. You’ve got a wife, kids and your wife is literally your trophy “win”.

But you can’t develop good relationships or friendships at work, and you’re sperging out on an anonymous board all bc your wife is an affectionate mother.

Truthfully, you’re just emotionally immature right now. Hopefully you grow out of it, before you become yet another divorced pilot. Good luck, you fucking retard.

>>33315596
you don't get angry at "normies" because they are more powerful than you

>>33315596
maybe you are angry at her because she sees your true self, a narcissist, a beta(4/10) which tries hard to keep up a good image of himself

>>33315635
I’m not a beta at all. Thats a lie
>>33315621
I’m not sabotaging myself, I just live as my normal self. I’ve just lost my passion for life, maybe life is not meant for me. Ever since I was 8 years old, I’ve never in my life been happy or satisfied

>she talks back
you don't treat her like a human being

>>33315647
Yes I do, you know how hard I’ve worked? She has a nice house, huge land, I gave her our son and now she’s pregnant. Right now you would be in engineer school for like another 5 years I saved her. I remember the day she rejected me when she was 16, everyone knew about it and it freaking hurt me.

you might be a psychopath

>>33315641
Bro. My brother in Christ. That’s literally the problem. You can’t. Argh, what the fuck. I’m at a loss for what to say to you.

Children are not born feeling that way, feeling that indescribable emptiness and sense of disconnect. Either you’re sociopathic, or you had someone hurt you to the point of dissociative episodes.

Do you think trying to talk to your wife about this would kill your relationship? Dude I just feel bad for you right now. You have everything you could want, what most guys on this board would kill for, and you’re just trolling on 4chan for the fun of it.

Damn, I think you’re just trolling. :/

>>33315669
ooooh my god.
OP you literally don’t love her, you view your marriage as you literally owning her and getting revenge for her rejection of you.

>When we met she was a 10/10 and I was a 4/10. Now I’m a 6.85/10 and she’s a 9.2/10. My rating is more subjective while hers it’s objective
What system did (You) use to evaluate the score?

>>33315698
I’m not trolling and yes I don’t feel like talking to her about it because I’m not someone that talks a lot especially not about issues like this. That’s why I left the house because if I start talking about it and she says anything that gets me more angry it might push me to the edge and I’m genuinely scared of that so I don’t think I’m a psychopath or sociopath idk the difference. Because obviously I do everything NOT to hurt her, like when I left the house
>>33315693
>>33315703
I don’t own her but we have different duties

>>33315242 (OP)
I need to know what regional you work for. I just want to know what washed up airline to avoid flying on, since you’d probably attempt to kamikaze a plane full of passengers when your wife leaves you.

>>33315721
>I’m not trolling and yes I don’t feel like talking to her about it because I’m not someone that talks a lot especially not about issues like this.
Look forward to your divorce, brother.

>>33315724
She wouldn’t ever divorce me.

>>33315722
My wife is not gonna leave me ever. Number 1 she loves me a lot
2 she needs me
3 she believes in marriage for life, if anything I would leave her but I wouldn’t ever do that

>>33315693
The only reason I feel this way is because I genuinely can’t feel love or care about anyone. But for some reason I do good deeds. I don’t know. Is there a cure?

>this thread again
Colombian necktie you cringe autist

>my blood pressure rises and boils and it gets me angry.
>She wouldn’t ever divorce me.
Uh oh, someone had a similar situation and it didn't end well

>>33315721
You know you are avoiding a lot of what I’ve been saying to you.

I’m glad you left the house to avoid taking your anger out on your wife. That’s a good step. Genuinely I’m not being an asshole, it at least shows you have some care to not lash out at her.

However, I do think you’re holding on to resentment towards her, and you need to either communicate that or find a way to let go of it. Your feelings will only escalate the more you attempt to repress them. Damn, the FAA seriously needs to allow you guys the option to have some type of therapy.

>>33315242 (OP)
I won't read yet another wife/gf cosmetic imperfection thread posted by an obviously subhuman retard.

>>33315242 (OP)
I'm a mom of two and yes pregnancy comes with making boobs big, weaning off after breastfeeding (which i assume is happening around the 1, 1.5 year mark) reduces the volume back to previous size but the skin + gravity doesn't make them look the exact same.

Try watching less porn and be less of a disgusting unloving piece of shit to the woman that sacrificed her youth and beauty for you and your offspring you retarded coomer

>>33315740
You’re just emotionally disconnected. Do something that allows you to connect with your own feelings, and through that you will appreciate connection and understanding for others. Do you paint or have any kind of outlet? I knew a pilot who always traveled with his ukulele. Another who played piano with his wife.

>>33315757
She didn’t sacrifice her youth or beauty, she’s still beautiful. And she’s still young

It’s a bait thread, just look in the archives for airline pilot you summery sillies

>>33315771
Damn, I knew it. No one can be this much of an emotional fuckup. OP, you got me good.

>>33315763
I mean she did because she unfortunately had a kid with a narcissistic loser who gets jealous of a literal baby and makes up some petty superficial bs to weasel his way out of actual commitment. When she could have instead spend her early 20s figuring out what kind of person she wants to be in life and getting an education

>>33315742
I have never made this thread
>>33315747
I am holding off resentment, look, today when I walked in the door and I saw her cute talking with the baby, my heart started pumping like crazy, i started to sweat in seconds, i was extremely extremely to losing it right there and there (my arms and hands were shaking) I’ve never lost my temper (since i was like a child 7). What I’m trying to explain to you, this isn’t normal, and I can’t control why my heart and body reacted like that, she was looking down, thank god she didn’t look at me because I was having evil thoughts. I ran to my car and I just started screaming and punching stuff

>>33315778
I’ve never made this thread….

>>33315791
Explain how am I a narcissistic loser? I’m 23, I’m an airline pilot, I own a home and 2 cars AND I have a child with a beautiful woman, don’t you think I’ve accomplished a lot and don’t you think that required tremendous amount of responsibility and work

>>33315824
You said you're unable to tell your wife you love her, you only are with her because of physical appearance and the status that comes with it. Generally your whole message just really cements you don't even enjoy your life but instead just chase status and outward approval. And of course feeling visceral hate and jealousy for your infant child getting love and attention. You also said you find "her stories" boring and annoying and just want her to listen to you and hype you up. Again needing nothing but an ego boost. You are as filthy as you are pathetic. I just really hope the girl wakes up and listens to all the people who have warned her and leaves you before you start unloading your abuse onto your son. Do you even love him? Because as babies they dont do anything or challenge you in any way so it's basically the maximum amount of love you will feel. So if you don't do it now it's just going to be very likely horrendous abuse that is coming underway. You will always be an unlikeable, ugly, pathetic loser because the depths of your soul is rotten.

>>33315824
I think you hate your wife for rejecting you previously when you were 16 and you’re holding on to the resentment and betrayal from that experience.

I think you married her and convinced her to quit her education in order to control her, and get revenge for that previous rejection. I think you got her pregnant to baby trap her, and to “ruin” her for other men.

I think you also view her as a status symbol and her “failure” or “lowered status” is cutting into your sense of pride and accomplishment over her.

You will either hurt her or be left by her when your resentment becomes too obvious and she finally wakes up to it.

Good. fucking. luck.

>>33315317
You should probably get some sleep as you're bordering on brain damage territory. Also, staying awake that long without some sort of stimulant (meth, coke, etc) is nearly impossible.

Ur such a faggot.

>>33315919
I bet this dude has just been cracking out like this bitching and moaning over his life and meanwhile doesn't even change a single diaper.

>>33315919
I need to stay awake for another 4 hours to fix my sleep schedule (I’ve gone 4 days without sleeping at flight school)
>>33315865
>>33315900
This is not true at all. How can I care about outward appearance and approval if I admit to you guys that most people don’t even like me. And I told you it’s because I am my true self. If I was a narcissist wouldn’t I fake it to be more likeable? Now the only thing that I think is possible is the resentment about the rejection, I just realized this. You’re right I think about it like 2-3 a month for the past 6 years. But I genuinely believe I love her, I mean I told her I want to be with her forever, I gave her the opportunity not to be a slave to This society and be a beautiful housewife with money never an issue and she wouldn’t ever have to work. But of course she has to make kids and food and that’s about it
>>33315958
I have never changed a diaper…that’s her job, i work and pay for stuff and she takes care of baby and food. Simple division of labour

>>33315900
Accurate
>>33315949
Less detailed but equally just on point as well

>>33315641
>I’ve just lost my passion for life, maybe life is not meant for me
Dude, you should stop flying with passengers immediately until you get some help. You're a danger to yourself and others.

>>33316129
I’m not

>>33316181
Germanwings moment

>>33315522
It's from weight gain and loss, you tepid IQ slug.

I will listen to your truth when you tell it to me directly, the rest of this just washes down the drain. You know where I draw the line. You're either true to me or there is no place for you here because trust and faithfulness with youe important to me.

>wife
Welp you married her, so compromise or something.

>>33315242 (OP)
Then why in hell put a baby in her idiot.
Anyway you are not any different than every man. You don't love women (you might say it but thats a lie) and view them as something to put your penis in. Just find another younger unmarred by pregnancy fuck thing. Simple

>>33315497
> I hate how I could barely feel love, I hate how I don’t care about no one
Practice metta, loving-kindness meditation. Just do 5-10 minutes daily. Assuming you still love her on some level it will help.