>>33316132 (OP)Have you talked to them? A lot of times, it is because people help them with things, and if life seems ultra hard to you, it is because you did all of those things alone.
Talk to one of these people in detail one day.
They imagine (laughably) that they are
>>33316177 like they are Bruce Lee or Batman or something.
But every time you ask them about something they explain how they had an incredible amount of help.
>Someone's dad gave me this job because we were friends and he needed another employee>my grandpa gave me his old boat, gun, and car>my parents drove me to soccer, football, karate, violin, math, and swimming practice 18 times a week while I was a kid>i have a tight-knit group of friends that would do anything for me at the drop of a hat>i have a huge extended family who loves me and has taken care of me all my life, I don't pay for hotels when I go on vacation>my boyfriend introduced me to 4 new hobbies, paid for everything, and took care of me when I was sick and lost my job>etc etc etc etc etc etcPeople who have struggled in life, look and act like they have struggled in life.
People who have had effortless lives aren't genetically superior, they have a giant support network. The bigger it is, the easier their lives look from the outside.