- Don’t put her on a pedestal. Being needy, overly excited, be cool, calm and collected. She can strongly sense the desperation if you do
- Be funny when it matters and isn’t forced

- Don’t speak too fast
- Don’t be so agreeable. Give your true opinions no matter what

- Don’t respond back too quickly. Once in awhile is fine, or if the conversation is really good

- Flirt or tease her a bit. But back off and cool down if she doesn’t reciprocate

- Treat her kind of like she’s a bit of a dork, without insulting her

- Know when to move on. If there are zero signals she’s interested. Have the self awareness to acknowledge that

- Show care but not enough to be the guy she dumps on. Unless it’s something serious as fuck, like someone died
- Be respectful. not “nice” per say

- Caring less will have her caring more

- Don’t ask for her opinions too much

- End the conversation first a lot of the time

That's only a fraction of the rules you have to submit to while she of course can do whatever the fuck she wants. Women are so hypersensitive about all of this that even if you misstep in the slightest its immediately over for you. Anyone still wonder why men are tired of this shit??

none of this is true. stop playing retarded games you made up and just be a pleasant person to be around

>>33316675 (OP)
Not OP, khhv here

So there's this girl I like. I actually noticed this too, there's this sorta "Sigma" dynamics where in order to attract a girl you have to be non-enthusiastic when talking to her.

I've seen it actually work IRL with my friends. I guess it's right.

Although honestly I think it kinda defeats the purpose if you can't act excited around the girl you like but such is the objective reality.

The way I see it you have to genuinely maxx out on looks, charisma and money to whatever possible extent from 18 to 28 so you sorta get 10 years of catching a true romance. The numbers are kinda arbitrary but you get the idea.

Once you become a..."real adult" you should probably start taking the whole romance thing way less seriously and stop making threads and posts like these

>>33316675 (OP)
This all boils down to dont be too excited. I have no clue why most girls don't like for a guy they like to be a little too excited.
I love when a girl will offer to drop plans because she could hang with me for a min.
Guys and girls just arnt the same.