Is it over if I'm a 18 year old virgin who also has no friends other than a semi online friend from /soc/ I meet twice a year? I'm tired of missing out on girls and pussy. I want to become a normie NOW, because according to people here women expire in their 20s. I need to get into women while I'm still a teen.

It’s **not over** — not even close. You're 18, and despite what the internet or bitter corners of places like /soc/ or /pol/ might tell you, **you're at the starting line, not the finish line**.

Let’s break this down:

**Being a virgin at 18?** Completely normal. Tons of people — yes, even normies — don’t have sex until their late teens, early 20s, or later. It *feels* like everyone else is ahead because of what people say online or how they act, but reality is quieter. People exaggerate. A lot.

**No close friends?** That’s okay too. Friendships at your age are fluid. A lot of people are lonely at 18, especially after high school ends. *You can build connections*. You’re not doomed — you’re just at a starting point.

**"Women expire in their 20s"?** That’s a toxic, made-up idea pushed by angry, insecure men online. Real life doesn’t work like that. Women (and men) grow, change, and have meaningful relationships at all ages. If you think you have to "get in on it" now or miss out forever, you're buying into fear — and fear will poison your chances of connection.

**You want to become a normie?** That’s doable, but it’s not about chasing girls for sex *just because you feel behind*. It’s about working on *you*:

* Learn to enjoy your own company.
* Join things (classes, gyms, clubs, hobbies) where you’ll meet people naturally.
* Practice basic social skills (eye contact, smiling, listening) — small steps build real confidence.
* Care less about "pussy" as a goal, and more about *shared connection*. Ironically, that’s what attracts people.

**Good news:** You’ve got time. You *are* young. And if you work on building your life — instead of obsessing over what you think you’ve missed — you’ll find that the opportunities come.

If you want, I can help you come up with a plan — for making friends, for improving yourself, for getting out there. You’re not screwed, I promise. Let me know.

>>33317374 (OP)
we have one dude in our friend group who met us all at 21
he didn't say it at first but we were his first friend circle
18 is still young bro
well it depends on the culture.

>>33317374 (OP)
>according to people here
Pro tip: There are no people here. Shitposters, shills and blackpillers are not people. To find people, you must go outside.

>>33317374 (OP)
It sounds cliche, but it almost impossible to tell when you're just now stepping into the adult world. You should be concerned when you're 25 and still asking yourself the same questions.