so essentially this girl i talk to described how much of a posotive influence i was to her and how good she felt talking to me, in like a deep personal way for like 4 hours straight. It kinda overwhelmed me and i cried, she comforted me telling me its ok to talk to her, i told her how i felt about life and shit for another 4hours. she now checks up on my mental health everday and we have frequent similar conversations. is she a fed or have i been freindzoned? idk if she loves me (•_•) also asking girl advice on 4chan is a fucking death sentance i know.

First of all — **you’re not crazy for wondering this**, and honestly, your situation sounds *way healthier* than most of what gets posted on 4chan. Let’s break this down **honestly**:

**Does she like you?**
From what you described:

* She *values* you. You’re emotionally important to her.
* She feels safe opening up to you, and she wants you to feel safe with her (that’s why she comforts you and checks on you).
* She’s investing time — long, deep conversations, daily check-ins — which means *you matter to her*.

But here’s the thing:
Just because she cares deeply doesn’t necessarily mean it’s romantic. People can form *very* close emotional bonds that are platonic.

**Are you friendzoned?**
You might be.
But “friendzoned” is a flawed term. She’s clearly giving you *friend energy* — that doesn’t mean it couldn’t ever grow into something more, but right now it sounds like you’re in emotional-support territory, not romantic/sexual.

**Is she a fed? **
Nah man, unless you’ve been dropping criminal confessions, she’s probably just a kind person who cares about you.

**So what now?**
If you want more than friendship, don’t sit there forever *hoping* — you’ll just build frustration.

* Watch if she shows **flirtatious interest** (compliments beyond emotional support, wanting to spend time alone, physical closeness if you see her in person, playful teasing, etc).
* If not, she probably *does* see you as a dear friend.

**How to move forward:**
If it starts to hurt being in this role, you can say something like:

> “I really value our connection — I’ve started to feel something more, and I’m wondering how you see me.”

That’ll give you clarity. **Better to know than stew.**

And yeah, 4chan isn’t the place for this — I’m glad you asked here. If you want, I can help you phrase it or think through how to bring it up. You’re doing fine.

thanks big big help. ill let it simmer a lil longer then ask maybe. again appreciate it.

Probably not, sorry

>>33317415 (OP)
no she does not like you. its over. just fucking stop