I am 32, have aspergers and get ghosted or friendzoned after first dates. I mostly go out with women who are 26-32.
I noticed I had more chances with women around the age of 20 but even then it's still nothing certain.
I am thinking of changing my tactics and going for

>more mature women, like 38+
>aiming for non-native women who came here from poorer countries
>trying with single moms (1 kid would be okay, I don't want my own kids anyways)

I feel like these are my only option if I don't want to live lonely and have no sex.
I probably wouldn't be as serious with THESE women but whatever. Also I would never stoop down to dating a fat chick.

>>33318714 (OP)
Typically girls 18 to 20 come up to me to flirt. I really should just flirt back and go on the date with them. I've met very beautiful, fit, cute girls and pass them up. You are correct I am not attracted to fat

I would never date a girl who has a kid.

>>33318714 (OP)
Dotn date a girl older than you. Thats mommy issue type shit and she will always see you as someone easier to control.

Don't date a single mother. Seriously, if she wasn't putting out you wouldn't even be entertaining her and you don't want to be dealing with her ex husband/father to the kids.

Dating a woman in her 30s is a red flag, the hotter she is, the bigger the red flag. Remember most dudes will have sex with anyone/anything. So if a chick is in her 30s, a hot one at that, there must be something wrong (usually psycho types, its usually why they have the rep of being good in bed, it's how they keep guys reeled in). If a dude is an incel or single in his 30s, it's more understandable because probably hasn't built himself up (as an all rounder) enough.

Straight up, don't have sex with a girl before marrying or at least hold it off/resist for as long as possible. This is to see if you can even stand that woman (personality wise or in terms of her habits) if no sex is involved.

If anything you are better off going for the 20 year olds you said are giving you some attention still

>>33318714 (OP)
>>33318898
dating younger women around 20 is a better alternative than dating much older women. 26-32 is the age where most good women have already been taken and you're left with women who do not make good partners. Men can be single at that age and it's not a red flag since it takes time for men to build themselves up, women are at their peak 18-22 and each year after that is a negative.

a lot of the internet will tell you that's wrong and age gaps are wrong but that mostly comes from aging millennial women who are single and from young zoomer males. both see you as competition and use shaming as a tactic

>>33318954
>Dating a woman in her 30s is a red flag, the hotter she is, the bigger the red flag. Remember most dudes will have sex with anyone/anything. So if a chick is in her 30s, a hot one at that, there must be something wrong
So the same could be said about single 20 YOs. So? If she was in a relationship but recently became single, I'd say it's okay. No matter her age.

>Straight up, don't have sex with a girl before marrying or at least hold it off/resist for as long as possible. This is to see if you can even stand that woman (personality wise or in terms of her habits) if no sex is involved.
That sounds like a reasonable idea though.

>If anything you are better off going for the 20 year olds you said are giving you some attention still
Well it's rare. Mostly because I can't text most of them online on the app i am in (they don't have my age in their age brackets).
Otherwise if I could text younger women (18-22), I would aim at them. I'm thinking of making a profile and de-aging myself there so that I pop up for them.

>>33318714 (OP)
The mature woman are going to look nothing like that woman in the pic btw

>>33318714 (OP)
Here's the truepill:

When a girl wants a guy sexually, she WILL get the guy. She WILL take the initiative HERSELF, feed him, get presents, invite him to dates herself, shower him with physical affections, until she gets literal sex from him. It works up until the guy's in his mid 20s. I've seen it happen a lot of times.

If a girl DOESN'T do that, then you basically fall into the "meh okay I guess" list.

They're not valuing you as a man all that high so you shouldn't either simply because it's not mutual.

Once you hit your late 20s it all turns into a fishing game basically where both your interest and their sexual interest is fleeting and not really serious but the advantage is that your freelf romantic obligations. You can treat them any way you want (without getting violent of course) and just see what works with girls and what doesn't.

Just my insight, no I don't have a Gf, I'm figuring out how to get one. But it's gonna be a mid romantic experience but I'm okay with that as long as I'd get the sex....I guess? I still have some standards in that there's only certain girls I vibe with "energetically".

But you do you.

>>33318714 (OP)
Gonna echo the other anon and say women who are that old and are freely available have a lot of baggage, which is why they’re single. Don’t go for “foreign women” either they’ll just use your an anchor baby and then bring their entire family over and make you foot the bill.’