How to get gid of unwanted fetishes and unwanted sexual thoughts about my family members and future wife? (I don't even have one yet, but even the thought having a future of my future wife cheating makes me infuriated)

don't say just accept it, I have noticed that this wasn't something natural to me and it only arised a month ago

Stop watching porn

>>33322587 (OP)
rape

>>33322599
I did, but people talking about such stuff even on forums like 4chan triggers me

I guess I should completely leave it all and just focus on math or something which occupys my mind

Should I stay away from my family for a while?

>>33322630
trying to quit porn while using 4chan is a recipe for disaster

>>33322587 (OP)
What's the fetish?
It matters.
I have a bad thing for giantess, its based in letting the other person having power with no requirement they change themselves.

Every little fetish has its own roots..

>>33322642
cuckoldry

>>33322666
You picked one of the few that idk how to help.
Self diagnose as best you can on this one and maybe we can work from that.

>>33322674
I am willing to bet its porn/media induced the constant tension of cheating alongside weird scenarios from Netorare (i didn't watch a lot, but whatever I watched leaved an impression on me) perhaps it could be due to feeling unmanly / insecure?

I am not really sure mate

>>33322705
All I know about cuck fetishes is it can come from getting used to watching other people fuck girls you think are cute.
You need to find a way to make yourself the hero of your own story.

>>33322717
I understand that anon, so what would you advice to me as of now just quit porn and minimize all types of social media?

Also please elaborate the second part of your post

>>33322739
As to the second part.
You like seeing other guys fuck because it is the context you have expected most sex. I never had that issue because I like female pleasure and that lead me to lesbian shit.
Most guys see themselves in the place of the male porn actor, you got the short end of the stick and saw the other guy.
Reduce porn as much as you can but only watch solo shit.

>>33322587 (OP)
I won't read delusional nutjob obsessing about some fantasy in his head.

>>33322587 (OP)
Unironically have real sex I used to have fetishes for traps and BBWs until I started getting the real thing on Tinder now I only want normal women

>>33322752
>Most guys see themselves in the place of the male porn actor, you got the short end of the stick and saw the other guy.

makes sense now, because I was like the other guys too not longer then less than a month ago, do you think it could be due to the fact that I watched a lot of porn and that my mind got desensitized to the point where it started craving something more thrilling?

I also just realised I am not that deep in cuck shit because I just watched a solo female video and got a bone, the thing which is really bothering me is my brain coming up for useless porn scenarios

Anyways anon, thanks for the help

>>33322757
Fair advice, thanks anon

I am a bit confused now , I thought that leaving porn altogether is the best possible move

>>33322587 (OP)
Take a walK when you have these thoughts

>>33322797
It is.
But some porn is better than others.