Being autistic is a death sentence romantically - /adv/ (#33323235) [Archived: 1035 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:59:24 AM No.33323235
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I'm autistic and it's over. I see men visibly worse looking than me in relationships with baddies. I get dates from OLD but get friendzoned always.
People match based on similar genetics. They SMELL it basically in other people, that's how they connect.
Being autistic, it's like your are genetically so different, you may be a different species basically.
Not to mention actual behavioral differences that you can't overcome.

Autism is actually lack of social automatism, that's why it's the word AUTomatISM with missing letters, like the automatism is missing in you.
Women smell it right away and CAN NOT be attracted to you. My dating experiences are still vastly better than for majority of autistic guys.
Which proves I'm good looking at least, but that's not enough and never will be. And no, you can not teach this social automatism.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:52:59 AM No.33323366
>>33323235 (OP)
So let me get this right? You cannot understand social situations very well, but still types this type of shit and expect us to listen to it?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 11:55:41 AM No.33323371
>>33323366
sir this is an advice board. what. are. you. doing. here?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:23:35 PM No.33323412
autists failing to reproduce at a high rate is a good thing
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:33:15 PM No.33323426
>>33323412
It's funny. I don't even want to reproduce. I just wanted a gf who also didn't want kids, just to be together.
I know normies may not understand it but yea, people can want to be together with someone even if they dont want to have childoids.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:36:39 PM No.33323433
>>33323371
what is this shitty post doing here? What does this rambling idiot want advice on, other than just agreeing so his excuse gets validation?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:41:56 PM No.33323443
>>33323433
>What does this rambling idiot want advice on, other than just agreeing so his excuse gets validation?
Not OP, but a counterargument or differing opinion would be nice.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:51:21 PM No.33323453
>>33323235 (OP)
Every reason but yourself right?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 12:53:52 PM No.33323459
>>33323443
Counterargument to the notion that being autistic dooms you romantically? Plenty of autistic people have gfs. There's hardly a point that can be made except for engaging in discourse about retarded pheromone astrology.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 1:14:55 PM No.33323514
>>33323412
WRONG
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 1:57:04 PM No.33323601
>taking advice on autism from autistic 4chan chuds
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:00:23 PM No.33323608
go to a third world country and the women there have no choice but to date you. itโ€™s either dating a retard or getting rapped by ahmadinajeet
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:15:49 PM No.33323640
>>33323235 (OP)
>relationships with baddies
>get dates from OLD
What are you talking about?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:28:51 PM No.33323687
I'm autistic had 5 girlfriends and have a body count of 13

I didn't even cold approach which I regret but I have been flirted with in real life but didn't notice until it was too late.

It's definitely not autism that's keeping from
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 2:41:41 PM No.33323732
>>33323459
>Counterargument to the notion that being autistic dooms you romantically? Plenty of autistic people have gfs.
LMAO, also plenty of people are multimillionaires. That means all people can be multimillionares and will be multimilionaires right?
Retarded normoid take.

>>33323640
OLD = online dating. If you don't know what a baddie is, well sorry I don't speek boomerish.

>>33323687
Oh wow, top tier 1% with just slight autism isn't doing as bad as an actualy autist. NOW YOU SHOWED THEM!
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:15:11 PM No.33323823
>>33323732
I'm definitely not top 1%. I go a year without access to sex.

I'm 5' 8".

Just improve yourself. Workout, make money. I still haven't improved my wardrobe or hairstyle whatever.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:20:59 PM No.33323845
>>33323732
>LMAO, also plenty of people are multimillionaires. That means all people can be multimillionares and will be multimilionaires right? Retarded normoid take.
Your original take is saying that autists are genetically predisposed to being unlovable. Obviously not everyone is going to be a millionaire, and not every autist is going to find love. No shit. Hopefully you won't because you're a retarded faggot, but if you were a little bit less of one maybe you'd have a shot. Your whole post is just a "woe is me" rant about nonsense. It's not a revelation that autistic people struggle with dating but it's not because of their scent, unless you mean in the unwashed sense.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:26:30 PM No.33323867
>>33323235 (OP)
I have never kissed a girl and it's all because of my mental disability. Sone girls even approached me and asked me out because I look good, but I just don't know what to do with them.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:48:40 PM No.33323940
>>33323235 (OP)
Autism isn't a romantic death sentence at all. Let's not try to over-intellectualize this shit into oblivion. Here's the problem with autists:

They suck at verbalising and communicating love and feelings and romance. They suck so hard they either say the wrong thing, or say nothing at all.

Does it mean autists don't feel love and cannot show love? Fuck no. Because what the autist does get right, and REALLY gets it right is this: action. Silent actions, non verbal actions. Autists love very effectively in this way.

I know this because my brother has autism and so does my wife. Both of them suck at verbalising deep or meaningful shit. But whenever they know what the right thing is, they go and they do the right thing. That has it's weight and value in gold. Because people like me, we're good at saying nice shit, but there's no action backing it up. All empty charm. Autists at least truly act the part when it matters most. Something that puts me to shame too, since my wife is high functioning autist. She taught me how to be a better person and all she had to do was be herself. She didn't even have to tell me shit, I just watched her actions. If more people did the same with autists they'd see what I see too. The world is obsessed with language and words. Behind the words are some shit people. Autists are almost always great and beautiful people at the core.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:55:35 PM No.33323966
there'll be time enough for counting
there'll be time enough for counting
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>>33323235 (OP)
it's a tougher hand than most anon but it's not unplayable. you just need a good bluff and to wait for the right hand. stop trying to count your money at the table
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 3:59:04 PM No.33323983
>>33323235 (OP)

>People match based on similar genetics.
Not always, extraneous preference is a thing
>They SMELL it basically in other people, that's how they connect.
Use deodorant lol
>Being autistic, it's like your are genetically so different, you may be a different species basically.
Nah bruv, you are just scapegoating

>Women smell it right away and CAN NOT be attracted to you. My dating experiences are still vastly better than for majority of autistic guys.
So are some women attracted to you or not? Make up your mind
>Which proves I'm good looking at least, but that's not enough and never will be.
You are right about that. Remember that:
>I see men visibly worse looking than me in relationships with baddies.

>And no, you can not teach this social automatism.
Wrong. Anything can be learned, you just gotta give a damn
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:00:01 PM No.33323987
>>33323867
>just don't know what to do with them.
Is it really autistic thing?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:05:48 PM No.33324004
>>33323443
You cannot do that with people on here most of the time though. All these "how to get woman" threads are so fucking soulsucking. He won't listen no matter what.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:16:50 PM No.33324041
>>33323732
Sad you now have no excuse? You are an annoying piece of shit. Has nothing to do with autism.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 4:56:42 PM No.33324180
>>33323235 (OP)
I won't read threads that have such an unpromising start.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:41:28 PM No.33324537
>>33323987
Not necessarily, I think I'm just stupid.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:23:16 PM No.33324613
>>33324537
Nah, stupid people get laid just fine.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 7:38:12 PM No.33324672
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>>33323235 (OP)
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:15:20 PM No.33324749
>>33323732
what a faggot. No wonder people don't like you.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:02:23 AM No.33326449
>>33323453
Is autism not a significant contributing factor to "who he is"? There need to be mandatory IQ tests to post here.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:37:38 PM No.33328351
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>>33323687
>>33323732
im 5'8, asymetrical, was raised with two diagnosed autistics and my father has multiple personality disorder and I managed 3 gfs and 12 bodies. I currently, however, have 0 friends and no gf. At 24 I have reached my limit I think, friends moved away and I cant seem to make any new ones as local gigs, people just dont wanna talk really, idk why. I think the autism in combination with being muscular makes me seem low trust and not friend material idk. Dont care about the gf, gfs are over rated.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:03:36 PM No.33328908
>>33324672
based. including the shirt. it feels better to be a social reject due to my 'personality' rather than physical attributes overall, but it also feels kind of absurd knowing i'm around 8 inches but I'll likely never have sex in my life because I never go outside or initiate conversations.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:03:18 AM No.33331247
>>33323235 (OP)
Is it true that as an autist, you never get gut feelings about anything?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:11:51 AM No.33331304
>>33323235 (OP)
Wow, you are so smart, you have it ALL figured out. So since you are so right and know everything, and know better than everyone else, then give up on dating. Stop rambling and arguing about women this and attraction that. Just forget about the subject, and go focus on your autistic special interests.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:20:25 AM No.33331364
It's not a genetic thing, it's that social status/ social skills are the only requirement to getting a girlfriend, and you're socially retarded. I don't think I'm autistic, but I'm definitely socially inept, and that's why I'm 4ever alone.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:29:51 AM No.33331423
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at least your not and autistic and have a stutter that is extremely pronounced when you get in extemely stressful social situtions. i get so embarassed trying to speak, sometimes
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 3:06:44 PM No.33333615
>>33323235 (OP)
Try to "quirk" max?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:33:06 PM No.33333916
>>33323459
>plenty
And plenty more never had any experience at all such as myself. So fucking what?
But there is nothing anyone can do to help me or OP

>>33323845
>Your whole post is just a "woe is me" rant about nonsense
You're not wrong. There is no question, there is no answer. I don't really know what OP expects
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:34:06 PM No.33333920
>>33333615
Worst thing you could do is make yourself even more cringe intentionally. Why would you do this?