And I mean real de deviancy, where normal sex leaves you flaccid, is it possible to get rid of a fetish?

>>33323597 (OP)
Very much so, we can't prevent deviant thoughts appearing but we can choose to not engage in them, and hope sincerely that they appear less and less by putting our trust in Christ

Seek the Kingdom of God alone (with not partners to his side) and then he will provide you with whatever you need.

Practice pure semen retention with no orgasms until you are married. If you see something you find sexually stimulating, lower your gaze instantly.

Porn has brainwashed you and you can totally unfuck yourself if you give your brain time to heal

>>33323597 (OP)
Just reset yourself by not jerking off for a week. Only use visual material that's boobs or ecchi at best, or more suggestive by nature.

Just stop jacking off for a week or two and even then, use your imagination and try to visualise vanilla type of stuff. Avoid porn, Instagram, whatever shot might rustle up your jimmies.