So if you're talking to some chick online, what are the signs she's just fucking with you and has no real intentions of dating you despite saying she may be interested?

>>33324090 (OP)
Negative responses to dick pics.

>>33324090 (OP)
You ask her out. She says yes, she's interested. She does anything else, she's not

>>33324090 (OP)
you can only tell the inverse
has she shown a genuine recent picture of herself (that not only contains but also identifies the suspect)? has she shown verbal interest? is there a conceivable path to a real life meetup and if so has she shown a willingness to consider that option?

>>33324090 (OP)
Don't look for clues, look for follow-through and action. In that same vein, don't get yourself too wrapped up in an uncommittal fantasy. Generally just don't expect too much, don't make it more than what it is right now, but offer her opportunities to actually display her interest rather than talking about it like a hypothetical, then judge based upon what she does. If you can, get her to meet up in person. If she's hesitant, that's fine, if she strings you along and never shows any intention or effort to meet up, then address that, and set a standard for yourself that you will only maintain the connection if there's serious intention and possibility behind it. Meaning, don't let yourself get lost in a situationship that ultimately goes nowhere because she was just having online fun with you. I know it's exciting to get that attention, especially if you haven't had it in a while, but it's only going to hurt worse if you get your hopes up about something that was never real and that she never even wanted to become real.
Also there is no "may be interested", push her on this. She's either interested or not, it doesn't take weeks and months of "talking" to figure out if you're into someone enough to see them in person. If she continues being vague or uncertain, then tell her that you wish her the best, but that you don't want to continue investing in dynamic that's going nowhere, because you want to date seriously. THAT, anon, is how you keep from getting fucked with; having strong standards and boundaries that you communicate and stand by. You can't control her or divine if she's serious or not, but you can refuse to invest in unserious behavior and empty words.

>>33324090 (OP)
there's no point in nervously worrying and going over 100 different scenarios in your head. you just need to accept that you will find out and that there's no way to control the outcome.

>>33324103
/thread
If you feel you are wasting time talking to a chick on the apps, ask her out, and wait for a response. If it never arrives, it was never going to happen anyway

>>33324129
Yeah! What ChatGPT said over here. Thank you, ChatGPT!

>>33324298
Not chatgpt, sorry that more than 3 words fries your brain zoomzoom

>>33324090 (OP)
She asks you if you've been active with other women.

>>33324098
Don't all women not like dick picks?

>>33325218
Hmm?

>>33324340
no zoom zoom !!! me want boom boom !!!

>>33324090 (OP)
sign #1: she's already fucking another guy on a regular basis

>>33328059
>me want boom boom

>>33325218
No. It depends on if she likes you or if you have something interesting to show

>>33328232
I have a three incher so ain't nothing interesting here LMAO

>>33328059
>boom boom

>>33324090 (OP)
If she doesn't want to meet up within 3 weeks (max) then she's just fucking around with you. an interested women will want an irl meetup

>>33328816
>within 3 weeks (max)
That's quite specific there

>>33328534
kek

Don't attach expectations to outcomes. Talk in each conversation as though it is the last one you will ever have without any chance of going anywhere

>>33328816
My wife didn't want to meet up during the first year we chatted

>>33330758
>a whole year
holy shit on french toast batman

>>33331497
that sounds delicious

>>33333614
indeed holy shit is delicious and even better on good bread

>>33324090 (OP)
It doesnt matter. Pursue it until the end unless it involves sending her money or making any huge life changing commitments without reasonable assurance its real..
If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out.

Don't saw yourself off at the knee like this. This is one way incels stay incels.

>>33335850
>Don't saw yourself off at the knee like this.
I will have nightmares of this.

>This is one way incels stay incels.
But good point.

>>33335850
>making any huge life changing commitments without reasonable assurance its real..
Like what, exactly? I mean if it doesn't involve money, what other life changing shit can I give to a scammer?

You meet her irl
Everything else is cope

>>33330680
You're a foot loving degenerate, aren't ya.

>>33336529
Definitely

>You ask her out.
>>33324103
this.
I approached a girl in Uni, then texted, she sent me cute selfies etc. But when I asked her out she would always postpone it.

>>33324090 (OP)
Talking to anyone online is a mistake.

Kill yourself

>>33339754
That doesn't help with anything

>>33324090 (OP)
Fuck it

>>33328616
oh boom boom! we go zoom zoom!

>>33344837
This ain't no Mazda commercial dumb dumb

>>33339358
Who are these hideous women?

>>33348014
They're so ugly

>>33349124
And hideous

>>33351997
i like some of them

>>33324103
This is the correct answer. No more things are needed here.

>>33352238
You don't get to have the final say in this thread bitch.

basically, unless you're fucking her on day 1 or 2 it's just not gonna happen.

welcome to
>2007

>>33324090 (OP)
All egirls are talking to a rotation of at least 5 other guys and probably have a husband.

The sign is that you're talking to her online. Human connection does not form online because connection requires physical presence. People who "met online" 99/100 times used the internet to set up the meeting and formed the connection irl

>>33357993
I see

>>33324103
What if she asks you to go on a backpacking trip?

>>33361628
>backpacking trip
what type of faggotry is this?

>>33324090 (OP)
I won't read app-addled threads.They're delusional and OP is insane. Go outside.

>>33361725
I won't read I won't read posts

>>33361681
Tje kind that women come up with I guess

>>33363052
Well then women are faggots

>>33330680
That's horrible advice. This is a good way to get friendzoned and waste your precious time on this Earth on some girl who doesn't want you.

OP, ask her out ASAP. If it's not an enthusiastic yes, cut her off. That's all you have to do.

>>33361628
She wants to fuck you, and many handsome brown skinned men.

>>33361681
it's a filter for bitch-men when the girl's crunchy or athletic. Saying no means she has successfully filtered you.

>>33361628
Backpacking's extremely good for getting laid, especially if she's inviting you. Assuming you
>do wanna go backpacking, and
>have your own gear so you're not beggaring sips from her camelback, and
>can carry your weight and aren't gonna get to bitching pre-mile 15
for which failing any of the three are massive icks if false (she'll know)?

Then if you two vibe, it's basically a layup: bring weed and a flask of either whiskey or tequila (pack a lime and cut it there): back-country girls are extremely down to smoke your weed, get rip-shit on your liquor, go skinny dipping, then fuck your brains out in your tent.

>>33367846
What about black skinned men?

>>33371948
Hawt

>>33371948
No

>>33324090 (OP)
Who fucking cares, be openly horny and arrange to meet

>>33369009
Thank you for the only genuine advice
>it's a filter for bitch-men when the girl's crunchy or athletic.
Both descriptors fit her, and I am pretty sure the filter/test is the case.
>do wanna go backpacking, and
>have your own gear so you're not beggaring sips from her camelback, and
>can carry your weight and aren't gonna get to bitching pre-mile 15
Yes, to all three, hiking is kind of in my blood. The only issue is that I moved country recently and all me gear is at my parents' place.
>Then if you two vibe, it's basically a layup: bring weed and a flask of either whiskey or tequila
She very rarely drinks, but she had her first joint with some friends and I, and told me she feels that we "vibe the best" in our group.

>>33324090 (OP)
>what are the signs she's just fucking with you and has no real intentions of dating you despite saying she may be interested?

Talking to her online. Internet GFs aren’t real. You’re just a chat based video game to her

>>33378464
Forgot to mention that she is kind of a noob when it comes to hiking, so I am not to worried.

>>33324090 (OP)
its hard. i met a lady on threads over some art stuff and we talk to this day almost everyday but she was always weird because sometimes its flirty and comes off like she does like me, but then somedays she is a total cold asshole. pretty sure she is borderline but i like her as a friend and more. what sucks is her 64 year old chiropractor with prostate issues a couple failed marraiges made a move and now i never hear the end about amazing and cool he is when he basicaly does bare minimum romantic gestures. I know i should be mad at her for being led on(i was and wasnt) but i hate this old fucker and hope he gets maulded by a dog.

>>33357993
yeah thats part of my issue. If i lived closer(she is 2 hours away) i know stuff would have worked out better, but right now. lol.

>>33378570
>>Not having the girl come to you for crazy amounts of sex

What are you gay?