Dating a BPD - /adv/ (#33324552) [Archived: 1072 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/6/2025, 6:54:51 PM No.33324552
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I'm a first-year resident in a medical specialty. During a party, a self-proclaimed BPD fourth-year resident from the same specialty seemed to have a crush on me, and we ended up flirting all night in front of other coworkers. People saw us leave together. I took her home, and we made out for the rest of the night, but I refused to have sex.

Now, it feels like everyone hates me for getting involved with her at the party. People are saying the bond between the first-year residents is ruined, and apparently, itโ€™s my fault โ€” even though no one has said it directly. The thing is, several people, especially women, warned me beforehand about the possible consequences.

What should I do now?
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 8:22:24 PM No.33324761
>>33324552 (OP)
>People are saying the bond between the first-year residents is ruined
such a weird thing, how does that make any sense? Are you in some cultist university? The only issues are her having BPD which always ends up bad for you, don't try to "fix her.. Who cares about some retarded bond between students.
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 9:56:40 PM No.33325011
>gooner bait image
fuck off
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Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:03:56 PM No.33325042
>>33325011
Nope. When I tried to think of a woman with BPD, the first thing that came to mind was a porn star.
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:12:47 PM No.33325069
>>33324761
I forgot to add that I had a fling with a first-year resident. We agreed to just be friends and nothing more, since she has a boyfriend. She and another resident got mad at me for flirting with the BPD resident in front of her.
Anyway, this BPD girl says she's under psychiatric treatment and sees a therapist regularly
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:17:36 PM No.33325082
>>33324552 (OP)
>People are saying the bond between the first-year residents is ruined, and apparently, itโ€™s my fault
They are jealous
Anonymous
7/6/2025, 10:25:33 PM No.33325109
where are you from
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 2:12:23 AM No.33325951
>>33324552 (OP)
Imagine having a BPD doctor - what specialty so we know to avoid it?
>People are saying
Med students/doctors are not people
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 2:29:11 AM No.33326017
>>33324552 (OP)
she's not looking for christian man if that's what you're asking
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:02:27 AM No.33326450
>>33324552 (OP)
Call her and fuck her: damage done better get more than a make out
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 5:22:29 AM No.33326843
>>33324552 (OP)
People are just jelly.
But under not circumstances try to fix this woman. You will just be in for a long-term headache.