How can I make people who hate their life easy to deal with my quirky all over the place antics that given no other choice they have to deal with? I can't be specific on this, but imagine having to deal with a literal cartoon character in real life who isn't funny.

I am like this and I am literally married to a literal actual clown and we both annoy the fucking shit out of each other
Toning it down is okay sometimes, reel it back. You have to sometimes.

Everyone loves the quirky person until something real happens.

Personally I used to be that person. 'Cute', 'fun', 'life of the party'. But the people that called me that, were never my friends. Just people I was performing for in hopes they liked me.

Nowadays, I am more reserved and responsible on the whole. People now refer to me as, 'responsible', 'serious' and 'the only adult in the room'.

I still act a fool regularly, but I only do it around people I know I can have a laugh with and we have fun.

I guess what I am saying is, time, place and company matter.

You can either stop your connection with them or like them for who they are