Thread 33328199 - /adv/ [Archived: 599 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:57:06 PM No.33328199
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How do you get girls to approach you?
Will they automatically have already done that if I was attractive enough?
What kind of setting would they be more likely to approach you in?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 3:59:33 PM No.33328208
>>33328199 (OP)
What I will do is put a 20 dollar bill on a fishing hook and try to lure them in. A more conspicuous method would be to wear stilts.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:00:33 PM No.33328211
>>33328199 (OP)
I used to be an alcoholic drug addicted club crawler and you wouldn't believe how many guys like this there are. They're 6'3" with hair like a shampoo commercial and a jawline that can cut glass. They're also daydrinking cokeheads on welfare who dropped out of high school, never had a job in their whole life and their only skill is superficial charm resulting from constant female validation since age 13 when they shot up to adult height over the course of one summer vacation. Their girlfriends are invariably beautiful, younger, college educated, financially well off stacies from rich families who binge drink and snort marching powder once a month. They tolerate Chad being a "manchild" that leeches off them just fine until they outgrow the clubs (ie start feeling old next to the pre-wall girls) and get the itch for kids in their 30s. Then Chad gets another. Chad does this until he's 40. These guys really live like those lovable immature womanizer Hollywood characters in entertainment. It really is a different universe for them. Average or below guys increasingly just give up on relationships for good reason. She will never lust after you like she did for that deadbeat junkie no matter how much you make or how responsible you are or whatever else if you're average. Not to even speak of the poor bastards who are short, go bald early, keep a babyface, etc. Nothing can help them at all. Life is a beauty contest, that's all.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 4:02:17 PM No.33328216
>>33328211
>stale pasta
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:02:05 PM No.33328900
>>33328199 (OP)
Step 1: get off of 4chan
(Step 1.5: get healthy)
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:06:10 PM No.33328915
>>33328199 (OP)
If you hold authority in any given social circle, that's the most realistic way for you to accomplish this. Or you can build a social media channel and build a ton of followers.
None of it is supposed to be easy, winner takes all in life and you're competing against a ton of people for limited resources.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:31:52 PM No.33329037
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>>33328199 (OP)
anon, you have to realize it's way easier (and a way MORE REALISTIC goal) to approach women than to get to the point where they approach you
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:33:51 PM No.33329049
>>33328211
yeah, just give up. more for me.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 8:57:08 PM No.33329152
>>33328199 (OP)
It's pointless if you lack the social skills that would let you approach them anyway; I got approached and asked out by a girl but I'm still a khhv incel.
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7/7/2025, 9:06:47 PM No.33329193
>>33328900
step 1.5+?
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:08:44 PM No.33329418
>>33329152
>I got approached and asked out by a girl
How did you do it?
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:46:20 PM No.33329527
>>33329418
I was in college and I sat in the back alone all the time, with an annoyed/sad expression. Usually this causes the opposite of other people approaching you (and no one did for the first year), but the female imagination is unpredictable. This one girl imagined some kind of "potential" in me and approached me hoping that I would have opened up and blossomed into a Chad, I think. Over time she realized that I wasn't gonna change and that I was just an awkward hopeless autistic, so she stopped talking to me.
Interestingly, I asked her twice why she had approached me. The first time it was at the beginning, when she was interested, she said that she couldn't explain and she had sensed something mysterious in me (my cynical guess is that she hoped that I had the genetic potential to become Chad). The second time was after a year when she wasn't interested anymore, and she answered that she felt pity because I was alone (this is clearly not true, she was interested, altough she probably believes it because women rewrite their own memory according to their delusions; also a woman will never approach a guy out of pity or altruism, all they do is for themselves).

In short, women will approach you if you look good to them and if you have a certain vibe (that depends on the woman's preference and imagination). She mistook my vibe as the "cool lone wolf" when I was just an autistic reject.
I have a friend who's as much of a loser as me but he has a more physically attractive face and a beautiful voice, and he's been approached by way more women.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 10:54:14 PM No.33329552
>>33328199 (OP)
Girls find me intimidating. Even my sister said she finds me intimidating. I will never be approached directly.