Me and my female friend:

>"anon, what is your star sign?"
>"uuuh, it's scorpio"
>"scorpio is mysterious..."
>"haha, maybe"
>"and sensual"
>"..."
>"anon, are you mysterious and sensual?"
>"i... uuuh, maybe?"

Why am I such a fucking idiot? Everytime a girl tries to flirt with me (which doesn't happen often), my brain fucking freezes and I am unable to give any answer that would continue the flirtation. Every time a girl tries to hit on me, I'm paralyzed because I don't know how to respond. Maybe I am scared of intimacy and that's why I try to escape these situations...

What should I do? My only idea is to join some discord server for degenerates and try to become more familiar with flirting and intimate conversations there. It's a fucking dumbass idea, but I seriously do not know what else can I do.

Be yourself.

>>33328272 (OP)
Because there is no right answer to that crap when every conversation is a mine field. Not to mention asking you if you are "sensual" is kind of creepy.
If a woman wants to hit on a man she can just say what she means.
"Oh I am! " Now you have to talk to her about your sexuality or some shit just off the cuff?
Why are they like this?

>>33328272 (OP)
flirting with symbols involved is easy
if the trait is good you say you embody them perfectly, if it's a bad trait you say you're the exception and too good of a chance to let go and if it's a mixed trait ("misterious") you play along

>>33331890
She asked if he was sensual....
You can full send that but it's one hell of a question.

>>33331912
it was her female friends
I have female friends with whom I talk about my sex life and we both know each other is good in bed but we don't flirt with each other
so more context on what he meant by "his female friend"

>>33331961
Yeah but if a female friend you don't talk to like that.... It is a what the hell question.

>>33331961
>>33331980
>>33328272 (OP)
An important question is if you think she would actually flirt with you or if this is just her sense of humor. I lack context so for all I know your awkward response made her laugh and none of this was ever that serious.

And furthermore, do you genuinely want to go out with her or do you feel this way just because girl

OP here

I don't talk about my sex life with this friend. I'm kinda interested in her, but maybe I feel this way just because she is a girl.

And it doesn't matter if she actually wanted to flirt or if it's just her sense of humor. It was my chance to flirt a little bit, but my answer was dumb. All my answers are safe or dumb, because I am so unfamiliar with flirting.

>>33331890
hey, this is actually a good advice, thanks

>>33328272 (OP)
>"i... uuuh, maybe?"
Autism

>>33328272 (OP)
Widen your eye and drop your jaw exaggeratedly and say something like
>"I can't BELIEVE you would say that!"
>"Pretty dangerous comment to make, don't you think?"
>"You're a troublemaker!"
>"What a forward young lady!"

She's escalating and seeing if you'll be thrown off, the appropriate response is a playful "how dare you" type comment that says "I can't come up with something but it's because you're inappropriate, not because I have social anxiety" and then holding eye contact until she smiles or looks away

>>33331825
This. Imagine if the roles were reversed, Bro would've been reported to HR immediately.

>>33328272 (OP)
That isn't your fault. She was genuinely being a creep. How the hell are you supposed to answer "ArE YoU MYSteriOUS AND sEnsUAL?!?!"
ummm... the fuck

>>33332970
>mfw reading this

>>33328272 (OP)
>I'm paralyzed

retard, imagine being afraid of women

When women flirt with me I literally don't give a damn and feel nothing, and that makes them even more interested because it's rare to find a guy who isn't desperate

>>33328272 (OP)
> My only idea is to join some discord server for degenerates and try to become more familiar with flirting and intimate conversations there.
She sounds like the GILFs at my gym. Assuming you want more experience with that, try the gym during the day when its retired people time. I imagine most women think that stuff but only the gym GILFs know they can get away with saying it because they're old.