How do I deal with my brother without going to jail - /adv/ (#33329753) [Archived: 468 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:08:30 PM No.33329753
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Alright long story short, my older brother is a legitimate schizophrenic bipolar retard who has been terrorizing my family for actual years. My shitty parents fucked him up nice and good as a child and now he makes it everyone else’s problem. He’s physically attacked both my parents on multiple occasions but they don’t do shit about it. My dad is a beta male cuck who’s estranged from the rest of the family so relying on him is out the window, and my mom is too passive and avoidant to do what needs to be done. I swear to god that woman is going to get herself killed by this retard before she actually grows a fucking brain and kicks his ass out.
He’s a 23 year old, friendless, bitchless, emotionally unstable manlet (5’6”) who feels the need to compensate for his height by big-dogging everyone. Everyone in my family hates him, but he yearns for our love. That’s the part that’s torturous. This guy is fundamentally unloveable. He’s just a fucked up evil freak. Believe me, I didn’t just wake up one morning and decide to harbor visceral hatred towards my own goddamn brother for no reason, this guy is actually like the fucking devil. Like it’s ungodly that people like this are allowed to exist.
What are my options here? How can I get his ass out of the house? Because if he ever lays a finger on my mom or little brother I will actually go to prison for murder. I’m NOT having that shit. I really don’t want it to get to that point. I’m taller and stronger than him but his sheer retard strength and ferocity is genuinely intimidating. If any anons here want to give tips on how to fight him as a guy with no fighting experience, I’d greatly appreciate it. I’m at the end of my fucking line here bros, this situation is so fucking awful and it’s been plaguing me for so long now.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:10:25 PM No.33329763
>>33329753 (OP)
Just move out. It isnt your problem
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:14:49 PM No.33329801
>>33329753 (OP)
>If any anons here want to give tips on how to fight him as a guy with no fighting experience, I’d greatly appreciate it
keep one A or some AA batteries in your pocket at all times, when the fight does happen you put it or them in your fist and just start swinging at his head and gut
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:31:57 PM No.33329917
>>33329763
That’s the smart option but I’m still worried for the rest of my family. Besides his bum ass is the one who should move out, it’s fuckin silly that he’s still allowed to stay here
>>33329801
Thx bro. I’m just now realizing that if I do whoop his ass he might actually just try to murder me in my sleep. He’s actually that fucked up. If I ever get physical with him I’ll have no choice but to put his ass in a coma and skip town
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:37:21 PM No.33329950
>>33329753 (OP)
>What are my options here?
Have him committed.
Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:40:37 PM No.33329969
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You unironically are projecting. The rest of the family may not share your feelings.
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:46:37 PM No.33329996
>>33329969
Nah my parents and brother HATE this fucker. I unironically hate him the least between everyone else, KEK
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Anonymous
7/7/2025, 11:54:55 PM No.33330027
>>33329753 (OP)
why does he act like that thoughbeit
>schizo
not the reason
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:01:00 AM No.33330055
>>33329996
I hope he does kill you all desu.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 12:42:25 AM No.33330282
>>33330027
I’d be here for hours explaining everything little nuance but put simply my parents are two monumental retards who should have under no circumstance ever been allowed to fuck and have kids. They’re two of the most dysfunctional idiots you’ll ever meet in your life and they absolutely dropped the ball raising him. I don’t have a subsaharan African IQ so I was able to avoid this fate by critically reflecting on my life and upbringing, but this idiot had no such luxury. Fast forward to the current day and the chickens have cold home to roost. It’s fine to sympathize with him but I have zero sympathy for a grown man who makes the lives of others miserable rather than finding his balls and making significant change himself. Cause that’s where we’re at and it’s frankly pathetic
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 1:00:41 AM No.33330374
>>33329753 (OP)
>Before AI....there was photoshop
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 10:36:15 AM No.33332953
>>33329753 (OP)
Zip tie his hands behind his back and call the police, report domestic abuse and threat of murder, he pleads mental illness, gets taken to looney bin
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 11:10:25 AM No.33333012
>>33329753 (OP)
A birdy and spiderman told me that he doesnt hit his parents, the only physical contact that happened between them was your mom hitting him and throwing a water bottle at him. Hes schizo because he had to deal with all the dsyfunction you guys were putting out and him internalizing it, and is finally confronting everyone, while your calling it "terrorizing". Yet everyone still hates him, not because hes unloveable, but because hes highlighting the dsyfunction your family continues to emit and not take accountability of. No shit he yearns to be loved by his own fucking family, hes made out to be the scapegoat and doesnt have anyone else. Tbh he should run away, death sounds better than dealing with that situation.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 11:17:47 AM No.33333014
>>33330055
Me too
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 11:22:37 AM No.33333017
>>33329753 (OP)
Oh by the way, the birdy also told me he took advanced classes in school and has one of the highest IQ's in his state. Hes not mentally challenged or schizo, hes that strong physically and mentally because hes a beast, from dealing with all of you.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 4:57:29 PM No.33334042
>>33333012
>he doesnt hit his parents, the only physical contact that happened between them was your mom hitting him and throwing a water bottle at him.
He pushed my 52 year old mom to the ground and punched my crippled dad in the face right after he got surgery. Do they somewhat deserve it? Yeah, but he relies on them for everything because he isn't mature enough to stand on his own two feet. Any sane human being in his situation would realize that it isn't worth fighting for the approval of those faggots and leave, but he doesn't want to do that because he'd rather be lazy and miserable, and he brings my little brother and I down with him.
>Hes schizo because he had to deal with all the dsyfunction you guys were putting out and him internalizing it, and is finally confronting everyone, while your calling it "terrorizing"
He's been subject to a fuck ton of dysfunction via my parents, but my little brother and I haven't done shit to him. The two of us actually used to be really close friends, but he went off the deep end one day and started pushing me away for no reason. I was nothing but kind and supportive to him and he made my life a living hell. He would regularly push me, punch me, tell me to kill myself, scream two inches away from my face, throw shit at me, kick sand in my eyes while I was buries up to my neck in it, and made me feel like less of a man. It reached the point to where I walked miles away from my home and isolated myself in the woods and just bawled my eyes out for hours. I legitimately couldn't take it anymore and wanted to kill myself. I called the SPH because I didn't think I was going to make it through the night. This was easily the lowest point of my life.

Tell me, since you're oh so knowledgeable on events that you haven't lived through yourself, what did I do to deserve this treatment? What did I do to deserve being treated like human garbage every fucking day for 1.5 years? I wanted to fucking die, man.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 5:04:20 PM No.33334082
>>33333017
Like idk if you're baiting me or not with this shit but congrats it worked. He's not some misunderstood intellectual badass, he's a flawed man who's done awful shit and used his past of childhood neglect as an excuse to avoid taking accountability for it. Besides, the abuse I suffered as a child was arguably worse but I never went on to torment anyone else as a result of it because I'm stronger than him mentally.

Tell me, how am I to just up and be buddies with someone who legitimately made me want to kill myself? He's the only person to ever gauge such a reaction out of me. He literally hardwired my brain to hate him. But now that the damage has been done he wants to be friends again when I want nothing to do with him. It's hell trying to deal with this guy. I can't properly convey how hopeless and isolated my situation is. It's fucking hell, anon, I wouldn't wish it on my worst fucking enemy. You seriously don't understand what you're talking about here, you really fucking don't.

Make sure you zip the manlet's pants back up when you're done sucking his little 5 inch cock, faggot.
Anonmous
7/8/2025, 5:09:09 PM No.33334109
>>33329917
>but I’m still worried for the rest of my family.
take them with you then. But get out.
> Besides his bum ass is the one who should move out, it’s fuckin silly that he’s still allowed to stay here
Do you want actual solutions or are you larping?
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 5:10:30 PM No.33334118
>>33334042
NTA. It sucks. You're not to blame for your parents mistakes. I'd agree with whoever said you should leave. Sure, that retard might have been a victim of your shitty parents, just like your dad was probably someone's else once, but now he's not just a victim but a perpetrator. This entire situation is awful. You just happen to know why an abuser is an abuser, but it shouldn't cloud your judgment like that. Fuck off, my dude, it doesn't matter what feels right or wrong, this shit isn't your problem. Everything will probably feel wrong no matter what you do because the conditions that created this whole mess were wrong in the first place. Truth is, there is no right answer.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 5:37:04 PM No.33334274
>>33329753 (OP)
Isn't it remarkable? Everyone in yourr family is fucked up except you.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:11:17 PM No.33334906
>>33334274
Lmao I'm plenty fucked up but pretty much everyone outside of my family irl agrees that I'm the most well adjusted. Once again you retards are making baseless assumptions about my life because you think that every familial conflict can only be assessed in a handful of predetermined ways
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:21:29 PM No.33334957
>>33334042
You should tell him everything you wrote here. Be like, "Hey man, i empathize with your freak out, mom and dad are awful. But you gotta just be the bigger man now and chill out, do something else."

Tell him to like go into the military or a WWOOF program