How do I ensure sex with my female online friend that's going to be meeting me this week? We aren't edating but I think we like one another enough for sex to end up happening. We have video called and she's a solid 6.5 face wise and has shapely boobs from what I can tell, haven't seen her ass. I feel weird talking about her like this but whatever, I need my dick wet and she's my ticket. I dont want to ruin the relationship by actively instigating sex, I just need to create a situation where it may subconsciously start happening

Have you prepared yourself in case it doesn't? It would be better for that, because what if she does not want to have sex with you? What if she wants to warm up to you before she did that. You're dealing with a buddy. She has to be a friend (maybe more than a friend) before you do a fling. Another thing is, how do you know she hasn't done you the same way with a lot of other guys and better?

>>33332021 (OP)
>Be girl
>Not many/no male friends because every time I try they end up being weird
>Meet guy online
>Seems like a nice guy
>Isn't like the rest of them, treats me with respect
>Ask to meet up
>We do
>He starts hitting on me, ends up being weird
>Every fucking time

Don't be like the rest of them anon

>>33332171
Good advice. Also, if you're asking how to get sex, you will likely not get it. Just sayin.

>>33332021 (OP)
Please give us an update after you meet, OP.

>>33332171
Bad advice, and following it will turn you into a low-T cuck loner. Every time I tried to be just friends with a girl, they got disappointed because they were interested romantically and eventually they stopped wanting to be friends and see me altogether.

>>33333007
It's good advice if he's ugly, but bad advice if he's attractive.

>>33332021 (OP)
>I just need to create a situation where it may subconsciously start happening
No, just no
Women don't work like that
Inexperienced or shy men always make this mistake, every damn time and if you go this route you're bound to horribly fail
Being passive and "letting it casually happen" is women's strategy. Men NEED to make their intentions clear through flirting and teasing over time or straight up saying it loud and clear if you can pull it off. Women expect and want that.
Not only that, women need more time to let a man grow in their heads than we do - we're instantly ready to go, unlike them
If you were to be assertive and clear yet still fail it simply means that she's not interested and you should move on or actually be friends, and any other strategy would not have worked
From what you've described it is clear that you have presented yourself and the whole setup as friends-only, but it is unclear if there is any kind of attraction or romantic / sexual interest in your relationship. What you need to do is make your intentions clear first instead of setting up this creepy trap where she expects a friend and unexpectedly meets a weirdo.

>>33333207
This is the most solid piece of advice I've seen here in a while. Brief and to the point, no internet cringe, just solid

>>33332021 (OP)
>I dont want to ruin the relationship by actively instigating sex, I just need to create a situation where it may subconsciously start happening
this won't work.
you need to start flirting asap but there's a 99% chance you're way too late