Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:28:04 AM No.33332820
One of my best friends is someone I met online. We talk every day or every other day. He lives in another country. Without warning, he went completely offline for 2 weeks. He hasn't been active on any of his accounts (besides his Instagram, which is private and I can't access since I don't have an Instagram).
I had only been slightly concerned until today when I suddenly developed a deep fear. I messaged him on everything I have him on, just a short message saying, Hey man, I hope you're good, missing you, let me know if you're alright. Nothing yet.
I don't know any of his friends and so can't reach out to a mutual friend. I hesitate to make a post anywhere asking if anyone is a friend of <xyz> as, if he's just taking a break or something, I don't want to make this a public issue.
He's a wonderful person but he does have mental health struggles in the past and I have to admit this is getting to me a lot. I'm sure I'm way overreacting, but in the meantime if I can't make the situation better, I at least want to be calm and enjoy my days.
What should I do?
I had only been slightly concerned until today when I suddenly developed a deep fear. I messaged him on everything I have him on, just a short message saying, Hey man, I hope you're good, missing you, let me know if you're alright. Nothing yet.
I don't know any of his friends and so can't reach out to a mutual friend. I hesitate to make a post anywhere asking if anyone is a friend of <xyz> as, if he's just taking a break or something, I don't want to make this a public issue.
He's a wonderful person but he does have mental health struggles in the past and I have to admit this is getting to me a lot. I'm sure I'm way overreacting, but in the meantime if I can't make the situation better, I at least want to be calm and enjoy my days.
What should I do?
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