>>33333234 (OP)You can't. They make themselves that by default and it's acceptable and even encouraged to think of them that way. What you can do is refuse to take the bait, refuse to engage in that generate behaviour and you'llsee that it makes them mad when they have no power over you, and i speak from experience. I have only found my peace with it through Christ, so it is not them, it is you who ought to have a pure heart, so don't engage in it and focus on greater things in life, and you'll be hated for it.