I'm lost anons, be honest with me - /adv/ (#33334242) [Archived: 1008 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/8/2025, 5:31:20 PM No.33334242
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>22 khv
>no degree beyond high school
>live with parents
>work full time, pay isn't great but will get a substantial raise in a year that will take me to about middle class salary
>don't go anywhere outside of work
>freakishly tall but borderline anorexic

I do have hobbies like drawing which I'm trying to get better at and I'm looking for a weight gain and workout program but I'm just kinda lost in life. I'm not gonna be satisfied with my salary and I've been looking around what I can do (going back to school for IT or something, air traffic control, etc), I don't really care what I do so long as it makes good money. I haven't pursued trying to get a gf at all because I'm very insecure about my physique and looks, but I don't know how to go about that once I do get to the point I'm satisfied with myself. Any advice or how over it is for me?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 5:43:23 AM No.33337421
>>33334242 (OP)
You're going to be fine. Find your interests, the things that you actually enjoy doing and just do them. A job should only be to fund your interests in life, if the salary can maintain you and you aren't suffering in poverty, then you don't have to train for something new. Don't get a girlfriend for the sake of it either. Figure yourself out, enjoy your interests and some woman will find you interesting since you have a personality and aren't miserable with yourself.

My biggest advice is find something you enjoy doing and don't even consider how you could monetize it. Do it and enjoy it first and foremost, chasing money is a never ending venture for most people because they have literally nothing else they like to do
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:25:26 PM No.33339242
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>>33337421
I agree with what you are saying, the thing is one of my biggest hobbies since childhood has been cars and that's one of the most expensive ones you can have. I also want to eventually own a house so this is why I am concerned about finances. I'm not to desperate for a gf either because like I said I don't think I deserve one currently and I will be dating with marriage in mind. Thank you for the advice anon I appreciate it.