So when she's drunk she does stuff like compliments me and grabs my hand or arm. We already ended up fucking once over a month ago and she even texted saying we should netflix and chill but nothing happened.

Once, we were watching netflix together and I tried sliding my hand more towards her vag as I was rubbing her leg but she put my hand away and said she's on her period. We still ended up going to her bed and cuddling.

We did that again and this time we just stayed up until 4am. I felt like she was just too nice to tell me to fuck off so she stayed there with me but I still ended up going into her bedroom and we cuddled and slept.

She also has me saved as "*my name* hot" in her contacts.

I feel like i'm getting very mixed signals from her. She rents with roommates who are also my friends and I always just wait until they go to sleep to hang out with her but I can't for the life of me tell if she actually wants to or if she's just being nice. Does she want to fuck again? I often feel like she acts very cold towards me.
What the fuck do I do?

>>33334394 (OP)
>What the fuck do I do?
Try talking to her.

>>33334458
>Try talking to her.
I do, I usually see her every weekend and we talk

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>>33334394 (OP)

>>33334394 (OP)
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>>33334394 (OP)
Send some flirty texts, ask her out and create an opportunity to touch/kiss her on the date.

You could do >>33334458, but what the fuck would you even say, realistically?

Just test the waters and if she gives zero fucks then delete her number. If she texts you again she maybe keen, if not then at least now you know.

Dating is a fucking mess. Feels Ike a game of poker and no one communicates at all. You probably 'should' just talk to her, but this so unusual these days that you risk coming off as desperate.

Either way - if she likes you enough it'll work out. If not, it won't. And that's fine.

Good luck dude

>>33338563
we already touched and kissed and had sex though. It just feels like each time I see her it becomes more awkward than the last time. Like each time we see each other it's like what we have resets and it's like the first time we met all over again. I will see her often whatever happens because she's part of my friend group.

>>33334394 (OP)
Stay away from drunks.

>>33334472
Holy F OP. Let me try harder. Your idea of a romantic relationship is you once rubbed her leg, correct? And somehow she didn't read your mind to determine you're "interested" after that leg-touching-incident? I donno I guess she can't read minds.
Text her something close to this if not cut and paste "You and I should go on a romantic date this weekend, what day?" (assuming you're free this weekend etc). Even if you already know you're both free on Saturday, ask her, trust me.
"no" - RIP OP better to crash and burn than not to try, I will drink a shot of whiskey in your honor tonight, at least you tried.
"yes lets go to (some chick bullshit)" - Guess where you're going this weekend? Yup you are going to some chick bullshit. As long as she feels its romantic thats what matters, even if its the county fair or picnic at the beach or some antique mall. What matters is you two agreed you're both doing "romance" even if you end up at McDonalds. McDonalds isn't romantic but who cares as long as you two agree to do "romantic".
"no but next week on Saturday at 2 pm can we go to ... " She wants it but there's a legit schedule conflict this weekend, you're all good.
"yes" - Oh shit OP you better have a backup plan because she clearly does not have one. "Cool how about we go to the (local gourmet food store) and buy some picnic food then go to (local park with stunning views) for a picnic?" which ironically is how your great-grandparents used to "netflix and chill" and don't forget a picnic blanket and drinks that are legal(ish) in the park and pray for good weather. Or any damn thing really as long as you two both see it as "romantic"
Or if not "romantic" at least more romantic than "one time, I touched her leg"

>>33334394 (OP)
>I often feel like she acts very cold towards me.
As casually as humanly possible you might want to suggest that you dislike playing the "hot and cold" game and it never turns out well, just like that movie that Ben Affleck was in. Which movie is that? I donno, but chicks seem to like that guy.

>>33334472
Talk as in actually directly ask what the fuck she wants, no talk as in aha look at baby yoda on tv hey wanna fuck

>>33340271
>our idea of a romantic relationship is you once rubbed her leg, correct?
no, wtf, we had sex. I stated that clearly in OP.

And I see her often. I just feel that most of the time we almost act like we don't know each other until she gets affectionate towards the end of the night.

>>33340323
>As casually as humanly possible you might want to suggest that you dislike playing the "hot and cold" game and it never turns out well, just like that movie that Ben Affleck was in. Which movie is that? I donno, but chicks seem to like that guy.
yeah but it's not like we're dating. I don't know how to say that without coming off as cringe / desperate.

>it's like the first time we met all over again
isnt that insanely nice, if you think about it? new love everytime you meet again. id celebrate these feelings.
>>33341325
>most of the time we almost act like we don't know each other
>we
maybe she waits for you to get the initiative? to start things?
its hard to tell op, since i myself dont start things, i give women that are interested in me and vice versa, the "nod" that they may approach me and initiate things. for example

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