Can someone black/redpill me on what dating will be like for me? - /adv/ (#33335092) [Archived: 1017 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:52:13 PM No.33335092
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Thinking of breaking up with my gf of 3 years because the relationship has gone to shit
My stats:
>26 years old
>6ft 6in, white Britbong
>London-based
>autistic and adhd (probably one of the worst things here)
>BMI 20, body fat 14.5% (that is to say, not I'm not obese)
>decent friendship circle, not a complete loner
>5/10 face at best, though depends who you ask as some women have remarked more positively
>I did a career reset last September, high earning potential technically but not there yet. Parents are wealthy at least.
>body count of 6 (including 3 hookups), each time I've been the one to cut ties

I've never actually seen what the dating landscape is like, at least not properly.
>When I had my first gf at age 21, I had zero photos of myself so dating apps were a challenge, but found my first gf through bumble.
>When I broke up with my first gf, did some hookups and a short term relationship via reddit
>I wanted to use the apps again, and I lucked out and found my now-gf pretty much instantly via Hinge, she wanted to lose her virginity that night and we had both just downloaded hinge so I had the new-account-ELO-boost, and I spun it off into a relationship.

I hear accounts that the dating market is bad and hopeless, but I don't know if that's just the louder voices of a smaller minority.
Is it bad enough to justify sticking in a mediocre-to-bad relationship?
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:56:58 PM No.33335119
Leave the relationship and enjoy some single time for a while before jumping back in. It's rough right now.
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 8:57:51 PM No.33335120
Nahhhh unc i ain't reading allat
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Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:00:00 PM No.33335131
>>33335119
>>33335119
To be honest, given how bad it is, as a guy he should be trying to leap back in (but not spending all day doing so).
If, say, 5% of women are good enough
A guy like him probably gets a match once every 1-2 weeks.
That means 20-40 weeks to even find someone good.

"Enjoy being single" only really works for women, because even if only 0.1% of men are good enough for them, they'll get hundreds of matches a day so can find the right guy in a week.
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 9:01:13 PM No.33335137
>>33335120
boils down to "I am a guy. I am in a LTR but it's not great. Should I leave my LTR to see if the grass is greener, or is the dating market too awful?"
Anonymous
7/8/2025, 11:14:58 PM No.33335802
>>33335092 (OP)
I'm a khv but I reckon you'd have it fine.
Height is everything
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:13:37 AM No.33336062
>>33335092 (OP)
Nothing to lose. Try it
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:14:56 AM No.33336068
>>33335092 (OP)
Shit thread
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:32:44 AM No.33336152
>>33335092 (OP)
>young
>tall
>rich parents
>sexual experience proportional to age
>multiple instances of successful app hookups

you don't have a problem. whether or not the people here are describing a problem that exists or not, it doesn't affect you

do not post here, do not come on this site, do not listen to the people here talk about dating

this isn't a value judgement this is literally trying to help you. remaining here and reading losers mope day after day is only going to hinder your mindset. you can already succeed conventionally
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:54:44 AM No.33336522
I stopped reading at 6'6".
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:17:47 AM No.33336884
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>>33336152
you missed the fact that OP has autism and adhd
also looks like a lot of the sexual experience came from reddit, not the apps. it's a lot easier to use reddit, and the women tend to be of lower quality.

i'd agree that if he didn't have mental disorders he'd do very well
but that's not his reality