I'm a young woman (>20y) and I’d like to get married not too late in life, ideally in my 20s. I’m posting here because I’d like honest feedback from men: how realistic are my expectations? Do I sound like someone you’d consider wife material?

Me:
European (mostly Celtic)
> 20
1m63 / 55kg (~BMI 22), planning to get into fitness soon
Brown hair, dark brown eyes, glasses

Kinda awkward physically, not very polished but I try

Dress style: casual most of the time (sweaters, jeans), sometimes long skirts/dresses (trying to dress more feminine lately)

Personality: introverted, quiet, not very outgoing

Hobbies: reading, writing mostly

I also try to learn to really cook lately, because i only know basics rn


What I'm looking for: (2 main criteria)
Someone from the same territory/cultural background as me (regional identity and cultural roots matter a lot to me)
Practicing Catholic (at least Christian, serious about faith)

Am I asking too much? Is this a cope-tier checklist or could this realistically work out with time and patience? And where could I go to find this man?

Appreciate any sincere input (even harsh if needed)

Extra context: I’ve never really talked to guys seriously before — no dating history, just one long platonic relation from when i was a pre teen(5 years, nothing sexual etc). I’m pretty socially awkward and inexperienced in that area, so it'll be pretty new to me

>>33336169 (OP)
Nobody will ever love you fucking ugly bitch

>>33336169 (OP)
>>33336189
Post tits or GTFO

Seriously pls anons

>>33336169 (OP)
Yeah there are plenty of guys like that out there. It's less about meeting guys and more about knowing how to select the right one. Idk why you're asking here, though.

women don't use 4chan, gtfo tranny

this is not unrealistic. A good man may even find your awkwardness and inexperience a plus, if you're pretty or can become pretty (I won't translate your pasta measurements). A woman who isn't lost in the social mess of hookups and parties and values cultural identity is normal but not typical so you may have an edge there. be picky. good luck

>>33336169 (OP)
what a transparent bait lol

>>33336169 (OP)
I believe there are more males than females about your age so your chances are high

I dont care about your flaws i think youre amazing and will take care of you forever I love you so much please let me love you I love you

>>33336169 (OP)
Do you look like picrel?

>>33336169 (OP)
>planning to get into fitness soon
big red flag
don't go looking for relationships when you still have work to do on yourself

>thinking guys care about your "dress style"
lol

>>33336850
>don't go looking for relationships when you still have work to do on yourself
This is retarded. There's always something to work on about yourself.

> brown hair, brown eyes, glasses
Just my type
May God increase you in blessing and guide you and ease for you the way to remain chaste and marry early

>>33336169 (OP)
>Am I asking too much?
A white guy that's Christian? Woman you are not asking for enough lmao

>>33336169 (OP)
>Personality: introverted, quiet, not very outgoing
This is what will stop you from finding a husband quickly.
You need to get out of your shell.
The who who marry young and successfully are the ones with BFs, and social women who are fun to be around have BFs.

>>33336169 (OP)
You might be too short for some guys but not nearly enough to actually be a problem. The big thing I'd say is
>planning to get into fitness soon
Together with the rest of the things this gives me the impression of someone who never does anything. You don't have to "plan" to get into fitness "soon", even with the most flexible interpretation of what that means. It's exactly the type of thing people say to push things into the future. You don't need to plan to do some pushups right now. In order to find a husband, you have to prove your capacity to get shit done and your willingness to put that capacity into the family unit. No man wants a woman who just lies on the couch because she's "tired" or "down". You don't have to be outgoing and loud to do things, but you have to do things or we're going to see someone who will get fat and force us to do both wage labor and domestic labor.

>>33336169 (OP)
The average age at first marriage is 30 in the US, higher in other countries