Should I be scared of dating? - /adv/ (#33336399) [Archived: 1016 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:25:39 AM No.33336399
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I know this will get alot of hate

Are guys really that weird?

I saw some guys post about wanting a girl,but then say stuff like " I hope she is a bit chubby so that not many guys will want her"
or "I want 18-22 year old girls but I am 32 how do I approach this?"
Do some of you genuinely think this is okay to say?

Another thing: Do you guys ever reflect about the expectations you have from the opposite gender?

It makes me scared to think about the females you might date in the future and how insecure you guys will be.
Replies: >>33336473 >>33336481 >>33336985 >>33337140
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:41:55 AM No.33336473
>>33336399 (OP)
post tits or GTFO
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:43:43 AM No.33336481
>>33336399 (OP)
no. it's all sour grapes. basically every incel here would instantly fall for a curvy slut who was a little nice to them
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:14:18 AM No.33336602
Dude, people who think like this exist and people who don't also exist.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:50:22 AM No.33336985
>>33336399 (OP)
>Are guys really that weird?
Around here, yes.

>Do some of you genuinely think this is okay to say?
Yes and no. You have to remember that many guys on 4chan hate women. And I u chose that word carefully: they don't just dislike women, they feel an intense, overwhelming, visceral hatred towards women. Guys like that think about almost nothing, night and day, except how to make as many women as possible as miserable as possible. So what they say on here is weaponised: it's deliberately intended to upset you as much as possible. Yes, they think it's okay to talk like that; but what they're saying isn't necessarily *true*, it's just intended to upset you as much as possible.

It's also worth saying that, while 4chan is one of the most misogynistic places on the planet, out in the real world it's not as bad as this.

>Another thing: Do you guys ever reflect about the expectations you have from the opposite gender?
Of course. They want to cause as much damage as possible by making their apparent expectations as hurtful as possible. It's very well thought out.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:23:18 AM No.33337131
I'd say most of the men that post on 4chan in the first place are more self-aware than the average normie that's glued to instagram/tiktok but just because people are more open and deranged doesn't mean normies behave much differently. Human nature is human nature, as us men have a predictable baseline.

i.e. The 32 year old normie wants a 18 year old because "they're hot!". The 32 year old 4channer wants a 18 year old because she's easier to control. Fundamentally though, the end goal is the same for both.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:27:02 AM No.33337140
>>33336399 (OP)
The shit you posted is so tame. Both guys and girls think and say things worse than that. Welcome to the real world. May you be lucky enough to find a decent person. Though I'd advise you be more understanding of certain motivations. Obviously the chubby comment is born out of insecurity.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:34:05 AM No.33337164
Imagine responding seriously to the most obvious tranny posting