There is no time anymore - /adv/ (#33336487) [Archived: 1014 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:45:54 AM No.33336487
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I have been merely unemployed or working part-time the past 2 years and since moving into an apartment with my gf she has found full-time work.

There is just no time in the day anymore. We wake up at 6:30am and are rarely in bed by 11pm, so there is barely time for sleep let alone sex and I'm always feeling sleep deprived.

My problem is I've had an offer for the best paid job I've had until this point in my life but I will be working full-time, 8 and a half hour days, Monday to Friday.

I currently struggle to get all the chores done, washing, dishes, vacuuming, laundry, cleaning bedroom, etc. Going grocery shopping, planning meals, and cooking then storing and cleaning up after takes HOURS. I have a stack of electronics I need to sell, and I don't have time.

I've never felt so time burdened, I'm awake 7-11 everyday yet I never have time to game anymore, I don't watch TV, and I don't even understand where all my time goes. I will do 3-4 hours of chores plus shopping and suddenly gf is home and we'll go gym, cook, eat dinner, clean up, shower, and maybe watch an episode of a show together before it's past 10pm and time for bed time routine.

I just don't know how I'm going to survive only have 5 hours in the day to do all of this while working.
Replies: >>33336500 >>33336738 >>33336995 >>33337242 >>33337478
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 1:49:18 AM No.33336500
>>33336487 (OP)
Ok so what's your question nigga
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:11:09 AM No.33336591
>>33336500
Strategies for maximising time while busy
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:39:57 AM No.33336738
>>33336487 (OP)
You’re a fucking loser if you can’t find time in the day working 8 hours.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:53:25 AM No.33336995
>>33336487 (OP)
If you’ll get paid enough, hire a cleaner. Time is money and money is time. That’s why uber now does supermarket delivery etc
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:58:58 AM No.33337242
>>33336487 (OP)
You have plenty of time, you just need to manage it better. Set time aside for housework, dates, activities etc and stick to a schedule, plan your week out with your partner and make sure you both get what you need or you will burn out.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 5:54:24 AM No.33337478
>>33336487 (OP)
You are spending too much time on things. I eat microwaved brautwurst and chicken chunks and my bedroom is a mess but my life is fine. I work 9-10 hours per day and I update my resume, game dev, draw artworks
The things you do with your time is a blend that defines who you are. If you aren't satisfied, make a change. Work does suck though I'll give you that s