Anonymous
7/9/2025, 2:20:22 AM No.33336630
Since graduating uni I've been unable to get a good job and lived with my parents for 4 years, only moving out 1 year ago. Ofc I struggled with women during this time too but I did manage to get laid once when living with my parents from a tinder match although I feel like I've done much better in the last year due to moving to a big city. The problem I have now is that I live with 2 roommates and my room isn't soundproof at all. So for that reason and other more obvious ones I decided to make an offer on a house which was accepted. The issue with that is, I don't have much money and that meant I went with a really cheap house which is in a really remote location - even more remote than when I was living with my parents. It only has 2 small cities within 15 miles which combined are still half the size of the city i'm in now. So I'm worried my match rate on the apps will plummet and I could struggle to find work. I started a job delivering for Amazon a couple of months ago which I love actually and I should be able to relocate but there's a worry that I'll get less shifts or none at all and then I'd be fucked. Also, the main type of woman I match with who I really like are Chinese women and there'll be way less of those near the house I'm buying than in the big city i'm living in now. Am I making a big mistake? Should I have just paid crazy high rent on a flat in the city i live in now instead of buying a cheap house in bumfuck nowhere? I'll be honest park of the reason I did this was deciding i'd give up on dating because even though I get matches now the vast majority still go nowhere and I only got laid once in the last year despite living in my countries 2nd largest city.
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