Hoe many times have you been rejected?? Does it get better the more it happens?? Show i just hire a whore to lose my virginity??

>>33337953 (OP)
zero. fucking zero, maybe I can just read the room but it always just falls apart.
id like a "no" from time to time, would at least make it clear that I should stop trying.

>>33337961
should i hire a hooker?? theres this escort from big island her name is Mary Rose Cain or Mary Cain. she said to meet her at Grand Naniloa hotel or Hilton Hawaiian Village for a higher price.

it gets better u get used to it

>>33337953 (OP) depends on however you propose(whatever..??).

Recently a guy confessed his feelings to me for the first time. the thing is, we only known eachother for a short amount of time, being 1 month (3 meetups lmao). Yes, he bought me gifts on each, even a nendo holy shit.... I felt guilty for accepting them; i was disinterested because we had almost nothing in common, thats all. everything went by in a rush and a sudden confession only caught me off guard.
that motherfucker sent me good morning and night texts EVERY DAY... still does...

i assume this thread is about sex, so yeah, just hire a prost, no girl with self-respect wants to fuck an idiot who isnt emotionally invested and committed.

>>33338686
Why did you go to two more meetups with him if you weren't attracted to him?

>>33337953 (OP)
Maybe 10 times, either asking out or making a move. I'm not sure it does get easier. Even now on the rare occasion when my wife turns me down, it stings. However, I've never been totally devastated. It's just embarrassing for a bit and you think about it forever (a good thing, helps you improve) but it's not like a breakup where your heart is broken. If it's devastating for you I'd say you need to stop building stuff up in your mind before you make a move.

>>33337953 (OP)
>Hoe many times have you been rejected??
I don't know. Dozens, certainly. Maybe hundreds. I used to meet a lot of people on dating apps. I've had a few dozen yeses as well.

>Does it get better the more it happens??
I guess. After a while you start to think "well, I didn't have a girlfriend yesterday, I still don't today, so nothing has changed." This is actually quite empowering: once you realise that the absolute worst that can happen is nothing changing, you stop being so nervous about the outcome. That makes you more confident, which massively improves your chances of getting a "yes".

>Show i just hire a whore to lose my virginity??
If you like. Hookers are great fun; but you won't feel any different afterwards.

>>33337953 (OP)
>Hoe many times have you been rejected??
Dozens

>Does it get better the more it happens??
It was never bad, you have new information and can move on with your life

>Show i just hire a whore to lose my virginity??
No. Strippers don't feel good, whores don't feel good, even one night stands don't feel good. Only worth it with a girl who really wants it from you

>>33337953 (OP)
Rejection can be as traumatizing as rape is for women. It doesn't get better because you're not supposed to get used to being constantly rejected unless you're some serial killer psychopath. It ruins your self-esteem and confidence.

>>33338748
Yes, it always hurts in the moment but it makes you more resilient, confident, effective over time.

>>33338759
That's a fragile mind right there. When you're better adjusted it doesn't traumatize you it's just another social thing you deal with in life.

>>33338791
it doesn't hurt though. it's mildly embarrassing that you were stupid and misread things

>>33338759
>not supposed to
says who? a significant proportion of men being rejected their entire lives is, in fact, totally normal human tendency

>>33338796
Not really, I just don't pretend that rejection is a cool thing to experience, fucking retard.

>>33338801
Well, that's what I meant by hurt. It's unpleasant for a bit. It's only rape-tier to brainlets like >>33338759

>>33338822
You have no self-respect for yourself if you think that way. How many girls you creeped out this week?

>>33338830
Yes, you're the good, virtuous, self respecting person living in a world of psychopathic sex havers.

>>33338848
No, I just pick girls that are interested in me. Enjoy your reputation as a creep, buddy.

>>33337953 (OP)
Its not the rejection that scarred me, it was the people I trusted most betraying me.

>>33338704
because its nice to have a slave

>>33338759
getting rejected is nowhere near as traumatizing as getting raped. you are a retard

>>33337953 (OP)
>Hoe many times have you been rejected??
40-50 times, I am not sure
> Does it get better the more it happens??
I never cared.
I literally ignore over 80% of all women, just have zero interest in talking to them, let alone dating or sex. A similar percentage of women feeling the same to me is just the same healthy attitude.

>>33338806
>Hey! Did you know that in one region of the world in one time period of incredible change few men reproduced? IT'S TRUE! This isolated event, which has nothing to do with anything in the last 8,000 years and looks nothing like the last 3,000 years, is the only reason i never talk to women.