Thread 33338538 - /adv/ [Archived: 471 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/9/2025, 10:52:56 AM No.33338538
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Where and how to meet lots and lots of women ? How to practice some middle ground between cold-approaches and only getting to know your close female friend from the same friend's circle ? How to expend your female friends social circle ?
At least yesterday I saw some man coldly approach a girl and ask for her snap, and it was really not fluid, and not confident, so I'm good on that.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:13:05 AM No.33338569
>>33338538 (OP)
Organize regular house parties at your home. Provide everyone with free food, drinks, and music. Tell them to invite everyone they know.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:15:04 AM No.33338573
>>33338538 (OP)
Become a dance instructor, bar tender, yoga teacher, fitness instructor, church minister, college teacher.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:17:12 AM No.33338577
>>33338569
Uh, that's a difficult one. I would need my own house, lots of praty-type friends, organization, time, a matching public persona (I don't, I'm more religious and not a party guy).
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:20:09 AM No.33338583
>>33338573
So you get a wife or lots of opportunities only when you get a status I guess. I could become a bartender, but I still have 3 years to become a college teacher, and I will then be 30. Church minister would be priest and then I will have made vows, or would have gotten married already, yoga teacher you need a formation and I think it's long, dance instructor I don't know dance.
Guess I'm a fuck-up looser
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:22:33 AM No.33338585
>>33338577
Party doesn't have to mean alcohol and loud music. It could also mean a dinner party. But include free food and drinks to incentivize people to visit.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:28:14 AM No.33338593
>>33338538 (OP)
I stopped caring about women so I dunno, heres a bump.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:38:33 AM No.33338611
>>33338538 (OP)
The truth is there is nowhere to meet people in the current year. There are very few single women walking on the streets anymore, they all drive, but the main problem is most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college. They will tell you to go to bars and pubs but it doesn't seem to work anymore, maybe in the past sure but not anymore.

Then they tell you hobbies, to get hobbies and sign up for shit, but most women don't have hobbies (their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life) not to mention the countless other guys that get into hobbies to meet women.
If you don't meet a girl in high school or college it's over in 2025, there is nowhere to meet women anymore, unless you cold approach in places where young women hang out. And let me tell you alone as a 30/40+ year old male, it's not going to go well. You would at least need a wingman but even then the odds are stacked against you not just because of the age difference.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:41:09 AM No.33338615
>>33338538 (OP)
>Where and how to meet lots and lots of women
College and schools. Where else?
Become that older creep who keep talking with girls in class.
Yeah, it's unpleasant, but you'll meet 1 or 2 sluts that pity you.
Guaranteed.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:41:24 AM No.33338616
>>33338611
>(their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life)
So, socializing where ?
Do you simply just try to demoralize ? I want a solution !
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:43:40 AM No.33338617
>>33338615
Ahah I did that this year.
It didn't work, and also some were incompatible (leftist) since I'm in college, even a good looking guy their age had difficulty and finaly settled for a leftist girl withtout the same principles (he is (or was) becoming orthodox).
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:48:02 AM No.33338628
>>33338616
In private chats with their circle of friends, on social media with those in their friend list. Go outside idiot and see for yourself, go to any cafe or pub, it's just groups of friends and they are very careful who they let it. Forget women for a while and try to talk to boomers and other adults, they will fucking call the cops on you if approach them or immediately be on guard as if you try to sell them something or rob them. Year is 2025 not 2005 dumbass.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:01:56 PM No.33338670
>>33338628
why are you so violent when I just asked a question. Maybe that's your problem !
And of course you need a reason to chat and approach strangers, but I can chat with people if there is funny things going on in the environment. What changed on that ?
Also, some other anon in another thread suggested bringing friends in a bar and there that there would be socializing opportunities
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:07:08 PM No.33338687
>>33338670
>Maybe that's your problem !
It's your problem idiot that's why you made this thread in the first place. I'll just let you spin circles you seem quite content with that, plus the women here will give your their typical dogshit advice that will get you nowhere in 2025, which you will take because subconsciously you just want your beliefs reinforced like every normie moron.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:10:10 PM No.33338699
>>33338687
and so what is your advice that will get me somewhere ?
You're just demoralizing, so for you too, your advices led you nowhere
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:22:30 PM No.33338725
>>33338573
how could I become a yoga teacher easily, with a short formation, and meet people through it ?
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:23:58 PM No.33338732
>>33338725
Mass formation psychosis.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:28:04 PM No.33338750
>>33338732
and ?
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:29:32 PM No.33338754
>>33338538 (OP)
Friends of friends are a good source of dates.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:30:29 PM No.33338757
>>33338754
Nice idea, how do I exploit it ? Do I ask them to meet their friends ?
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 8:56:03 PM No.33340440
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>>33338538 (OP)
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:50:26 PM No.33340602
>>33340440
So you're saying status>everything else
Of course....it makes sense now. I just have to get popular...
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 10:14:31 PM No.33340666
>>33340440
That's basically the end-all-be-all of all dating threads. Just get famous brah
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:46:35 PM No.33340981
>>33338538 (OP)
Leader of a rock band in a college town.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 12:42:02 PM No.33342938
>>33340440
Of course women always have the a posteriori justification that they need to know the man is safe and so socially approved. Of course it's simplistic and just a sophistic justification. They also have the justification that they need a successfull man to provide eh, so tiresome. It's all about percieved status, and I can't deny your point unfortunately.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:11:38 PM No.33344841
>>33340440
Status is the ultimate redpill but both incels and normies will never accept it since both lack status. No Chud, your deformed body doesn't matter. No John, your personality doesn't matter. What matters is how many people know you.