Men are not vanishing - they are retreating - /adv/ (#33338656) [Archived: 531 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/9/2025, 11:56:40 AM No.33338656
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From relationships, from institutional demands, from collective obligation. Not by cowardice, nor nihilism, nor weakness - but by sacred refusal to collude with a world that has hollowed out the feminine into parody, and severed eros from its mythic root.
This retreat is not a conscious movement toward soul, for most men have not heard of soul. It is not a deliberate descent into myth, for most don't remember the myths. And yet it happens. Everywhere.
Men retreat not in search of the feminine within - but in search of refuge. They turn away from real relationships, work, education, not because they hate women, but because the outer feminine - devoid of beauty, of function, of soul - has become unrecognizable. And if given a choice between emptiness and the parody, they choose emptiness. They choose nothing rather than violate what remains of their inner integrity.
But it is there, in the void, that the great possibility stirs.
Even if they do not name her, do not know her, have never met her - still, within that emptiness, the anima awaits.
She does not need to be reimagined, reengineered, or "updated". She does not ask to be made familiar to the modern psyche. She need only be seen. Once. As she is. In the dark. Without distortion. Without irony. Without demand.

This act of remembering - is enough.

Because where culture collapses, myth re-emerges. And where men descend into the silence beneath language, soul prepares its next eruption. The anima was never meant to be found in daylight; she is born in shadow, dwells in dream, and speaks first through absence.
So let it be said: true virtue is born in darkness.
And when men meet her there - not as escape, not as fantasy, but as a reawakening - they will return. Not as obedient citizens of a broken world, but as bearers of the fire: visionaries, warriors, poets, and builders - not of new systems, but of meaningful life.

This is not disappearance, it's gestation.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 12:34:34 PM No.33338764
>>33338656 (OP)
Sir, this is an advice forum.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:36:41 PM No.33339289
>>33338764
I decide what goes here.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:39:27 PM No.33339301
>>33338656 (OP)
My advice: stop thinking that clickbait articles are real.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:46:18 PM No.33339323
>>33338656 (OP)
Fear of rejection? Has a male considered that the female perspective may be repeated pain from toxic, dysfunctional, hostile, strained relationships that ended up cold and distant?
I am not saying that is an excuse for "rejection" but may attribute to the actual root and be factors as to why a woman is fearful of dedicating themself to a man.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:46:45 PM No.33339325
>>33338656 (OP)
You should follow suit and get the fuck out of my sight lmao
Go gestate yourself
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 3:47:19 PM No.33339326
>>33339323
How would one overcome that?
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 4:05:50 PM No.33339394
>>33338656 (OP)
While I'm not sure this is actionable information, I also can't say it's strange to see, or any worse than what's been going around lately.
Clearly, something's gotta give. Maybe the silver lining to the current situation is that we will re-awaken some kind of anima spirit.