Am I fucked up for this? - /adv/ (#33339832) [Archived: 984 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/9/2025, 5:51:19 PM No.33339832
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Advice im looking for is if im fucked in the head for being friends with my grooming victim.

Five years ago, I groomed a 17 year old into having sex with me. I didnt have sex with him until he was 19.

There was lots of drama and he and I both got harassed heavily by trolls from 4chan. Me for obviously grooming him, and he got harassed by trolls because the trolls just felt like it.

He and I are chill with each other now.

He tells me he feels lonely at times, but I have nothing to do with it since I dont know who his friends are.

Someone told me I was fucked up for still talking to my grooming victim so thats why im asking if its wrong.

Keep in mind nothing happened in person until after he was 18.

Tldr; am still friends with someone I groomed. Is it fucked up of me?

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This is a repost, I didnt get a concrete answer last time.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:01:49 PM No.33339867
>>33339832 (OP)
Oh no you're a woman so it's a-OK
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:10:18 PM No.33339895
>>33339832 (OP)
>Tldr; am still friends with someone I groomed. Is it fucked up of me?
if you are a woman no
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 6:26:35 PM No.33339934
>>33339832 (OP)
The fact that you didn't have sex until after he was 18 obviously doesn't mean he wasn't groomed: you began the process of grooming him while he was still underage. You clearly acknowledge this. Given that you acknowledge it: yes, it is massively fucked up for you still to be talking to him.
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:11:47 PM No.33340115
>>33339867
>>33339895
I am a woman thanks!


>>33339934
This was five years ago and he has the choice to block me anytime, so I dont think its that serious since I only talk to him online
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Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:13:06 PM No.33340117
>>33339832 (OP)
Nah blud really on here admitting to crimes :skull: sybau
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 7:32:05 PM No.33340172
>>33339832 (OP)
How did you groom him? You had sex with him while you both were adults. What did you do before he turned 18? It could be fucked up, it depends on your actions.
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 9:13:49 PM No.33340495
>>33339832 (OP)
Context, how old are you?
Because zoomers going apeshit about 18yo kids dating 17yo babies are ridiculous
But you were over 24 go actually kill yourself
Anonymous
7/9/2025, 10:13:21 PM No.33340661
Neck yourself pedophile
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:08:59 AM No.33342797
You did little to nothing wrong if you are under 30 . If you are over 30 Eh . Depends on if you would have married them . This everything is pdfile mentality is a recent phenomenon. For the past 250,000 years plus, it was looked at as eh or normal . But rarely considered a terrible sin to atone for
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 12:13:53 PM No.33342900
>>33340115
>he has the choice to block me anytime
You are blaming a victim of grooming for not being able to resist the effects of grooming.