I don’t understand women at all - /adv/ (#33342698) [Archived: 954 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:03:31 AM No.33342698
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So I'm chilling after work sat in the couch with my gf and out of nowhere she goes, "you're so clingy always here with me." then i ask her if she wants me to leave. And she says, "I'm just in a bad mood, I need to be alone."

And i said "We can be in a bad mood together" and she replied, "don't you take the hint? I just want to read and be left alone."

I say, "Fine, I'll see a friend." And as I'm walking out, she says "you're just going to cheat and see one of your multiple whores while I sit here all alone. Like always, you always leave me when I actually need you here with me."

I don't even have a whore and i barely have friends. What the fuck is wrong with that woman? I never knows what she wants.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:05:25 AM No.33342700
>>33342698 (OP)
>And i said "We can be in a bad mood together" and she replied, "don't you take the hint? I just want to read and be left alone."
I would have stayed quiet lil bro. When someone wants to be left alone you keep your mouth shut
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:06:51 AM No.33342703
>>33342700
Or a yes honey/babe/whatever you nickname her would suffice as well
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:09:43 AM No.33342710
>>33342700
wait nvm I read the full text but yeah just give her distance and don't act anal over it. And who knows maybe she'll come around
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:11:39 AM No.33342712
>>33342698 (OP)
that's why we have sidechicks
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:11:41 AM No.33342713
women
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:17:08 AM No.33342724
>>33342698 (OP)
Her accusing you of cheating without any grounds is a yellow flag. Oftentimes that can be a sign that she's actually cheating. Not saying that's the case, but it's a possibility.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 10:23:19 AM No.33342734
>>33342724
Or maybe she's just reading shit that makes her feel insecure. It's not impossible for a fahmel to doomscroll irl and read toxic shit. That's what I did when I was an active incel forum poster
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 3:55:29 PM No.33343328
>>33342698 (OP)
Women, as you've discovered, are chaotic by nature. Most don't even know how they're going to feel in 5 minutes. Part of what you're experiencing is that in-built chaotic nature. The other part is testing your resolve as a man (they aren't consciously doing this).

As men, we can back up our words with strength and fight over it. Women...have to be more strategic to navigate life. So they use words, manipulation, emotion etc for control vs physical strength. This is how you end up with a 300lb body builder saying "Happy wife happy life." He could demolish his wife physically if he needed to, but somehow she runs things? She has his mind.

Bringing this back to your situation: your girl is subconsciously testing your resolve. "Can little old me get this man to sway to my every whim / change in emotion" type deal. Weak men will try to chase and appease this. Not you: your best bet, when she's giving you BS like this, is not to ask her what to do. Women expect us to be mind readers. Just choose something, agree with her, and stick to it, regardless of what she says.

>You're so clingy.
> Ok, I'm leaving.
>You're gonna cheat with your whores, aren't you?
>Yup, sure am! How'd you know?
>Why would you say that to me?
>You made it up and it sounded like a fun story so I went with it.
>Why are you so mean?
>You deserve it.

Tune your response to your personality, but the important thing is staying grounded. The exact responses don't even matter because she's just making up the situation as she goes. As you said, you have no whores. It just matters that she couldn't shake you. The same applies whenever she makes arguments out of thin air. When she pulls the "Idk what to eat, but I wanna reject all your suggestions" bs. The "would you love me if I were a peregrine falcon" questions. Or "You cheated in my dream so I'm mad at you irl." It all comes from the same exact place. Every woman does it in their own way.
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Anonymous
7/10/2025, 4:02:58 PM No.33343359
>>33342698 (OP)
>>33343328

The single most important thing you have to understand about women is this: they *DO NOT* operate logically. You will rack your brain trying to apply logic to that which has none in the first place. She is literally doing this for no reason other than "it felt like the right thing to do." She can't explain the biology behind why it felt like the right thing to do. She can't explain that it's a subconscious test of your resolve. But she damn sure knows if you passed the test or not. "The vibe wasn't right." "Idk, the spark wasn't there" type shit.

You'll find that as you handle her tantrums, projections and made up fantasies properly that they reduce in frequency. You've constantly asserted that you can't be swayed so her mind calms down a bit. You're at a point where you know her better than she knows herself. And women absolutely relish not having to really think about much of anything anything and letting you lead. But they're not going to do that if something like bitchy little mood swings from a relative weakling can throw you off your game. If *she* can do that, what will happen when real danger comes? And that's exactly why they subconsciously do this in the first place. If you can't handle them, you can't handle the real dangers of the world.
Anonymous
7/10/2025, 4:31:16 PM No.33343464
Women are illogical by nature, but regardless even when it comes to women when they start to faulter and can't control their emotions you either need to set them straight or get rid of them.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:34:56 AM No.33346215
>>33342698 (OP)
Give her food
Yes, women are retarded and annoying.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:53:17 AM No.33346293
>>33342700
I have freedom of speech. I'll day what I want when I want. And if that passes others off then #NOTMYPROBLEM
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:55:13 AM No.33346301
>>33343328
300lbs or 100lbs

Pussy whipped doormat is just a pussy whipped doormat