what is wrong with me - /adv/ (#33344860) [Archived: 932 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/10/2025, 11:17:18 PM No.33344860
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ive been rejected by every girl ive liked in my life that whenever someone shows interest in me, even if i like them back, to do anything about it..

its like, i like the idea of intimacy but not actually doing it
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 6:43:12 AM No.33346496
>>33344860 (OP)
You need to learn to learn how to love yourself before loving others lil'nigga.
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Anonymous
7/11/2025, 7:24:58 AM No.33346615
>>33344860 (OP)
Unironically this: >>33346496

You don't think you're worth it so you don't act even if interest is displayed and obvious. But think of it this way: why should they like you more than you like yourself? That's impossible. A person is always their own best cheerleader. Or should be anyways. You are not at a point where you have the capacity to be in a relationship with anyone else.

Relationships about being happy in ones own skin and *sharing* that happiness with someone else. Not about being unhappy until you're with that person. It's your own responsibility to be happy. Not theirs. Just like men shouldn't try to fix broken women, women shouldn't try to fix broken men. And most outright refuse, even to men that did the exact same for them.

So you need to dig deep, discover who you truly are and rebuild yourself. I gave a lot of advice on doing that in this thread: >>33342781

It should be obvious who I am, but my posting starts here: >>33345064

It may seem like the subject matter is irrelevant, but trust me, it isn't. I just don't feel like retyping all that shit again when it's basically going to be the same thing. Read it and apply it just like the OP of that thread is doing.
Anonymous
7/11/2025, 5:36:46 PM No.33348428
>>33344860 (OP)
by liking back you mean you hit thumbs up on facebook and then asked them on a date?
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 2:33:59 AM No.33350179
>>33348428
obviously not wtf lmao in person