How do I become desirable to women? I want to be an interesting guy, someone who others would want to be around and spend time with. But as it stands I'm an emotionally disturbed sperg who isn't any fun to hang out with as a result of years of abuse. It's the loneliest feeling in the world. How can I become someone who's life a woman would want to be a part of?

>>33344903 (OP)

I’ve been in your situation.

I was the weird guy. I still am.

But if you’re weird and ugly you’re just “the weird guy”

But if you’re attractive and weird. You’re “the cute quirky guy”


Start working out. Start gaining muscle. If you’re overweight workout and eat less. If you’re underweight, work out and eat more.
Do skincare.
Trust me

Women aren’t like men. They are VERY attracted to men’s faces.
Sculpt your face with a good skincare routine and weight loss

Someone will eventually like you because you’re attractive and the weird side of you will enter this thing called the halo effect and you’ll be quirky and hot instead

Trust me anon
It’s the same process I’ve done the past 3 almost 4 years. It’s changed my life. Good luck

>>33344903 (OP)

>>33344903 (OP)
Working out is great for confidence and looks, but I would also suggest to become passionate about something. It can be your work, some autistic hobby, it doesn't matter much as long as it is something in the real world and not online. So internet shitposting does not count.
Also, very important, don't treat women like they are some alien species. They can tell and are creeped out.
If you are the best version of yourself (=working out), if you are passionate and if you treat women normally, some women will start to want to be a part of your life.
I'm not saying you will, with time, become some casanova that is the center of attention of any room and that lots of girls are interested in, but you can find someone that is right for you.

>>33344954
LoL first thing I thought

>>33344999
This is good advice too

Find hobbies that make you interesting

>>33345286
such as?

1st, dont be a stingy jew that posts jerkbait/mildpron on /adv/
2nd
be confident, self-sure. disciplined, tempered and most important never masturbate, even if it feels good.
females can smell/feel that you lost your "aura". also mind - set
even if these things are not you yet, you can fake it till you make it.
ever since i stopped jerking it almost 2 months ago, and changed my mind, almost every female on the train or bus turns their head and awkwardly tries to search eye contact

also you are a man. there isnt really anything that you can not do. you can self pity and bitch about it, but it wont change. you can man up instead and "just do it"
>>33345413
reading, fishing, swimming, tennis, volleyball, shooting guns if in usa, helping out the poor people in a soup kitchen every 2nd week, painting, basketball,

>>33344903 (OP)

Get a lobotomy, women hate men with high IQ. Most the guys I know who have gfs are dumb and childish.

>>33344903 (OP)
Put on your clothes chudette, the white race's values ain't going to preserve themselves.

>>33344932
thx for the effortpost anon. I already workout and I actually get a few compliments on my body here and there. I even sent a chick a pic of my abs a while ago and she loved it. Face is decent as well. It's more so my personality I need to mend. Cause as attractive as I may be perceived on a physical level the illusion wears off when they realize that I'm an inept sperg. Like my current routine consists of
>wake up
>doomscroll
>work
>write/draw
>bike/hike
>workout (occasionally)
And that's pretty much it. I don't have very many friends or interesting hobbies, which a lot of women would be put off by. That's what I'm trying to address. Cause the average woman is straight up overstimulated these days and I need to make her feel like she's going on a new adventure every day by being my woman.

>>33344903 (OP)
The rare female chud

>>33344903 (OP)
Money

>>33344903 (OP)
what kind of men she be pulling? 7-8's? doctors?

>>33346419
>tfw too intelligent to get laid

>>33347547
>Write/draw
>Bike/hike
Women love these. Ditch the doomscroll for more workouts.

>>33348745
It's true. Foids despise intelligence in men. Think back to your school and you'll see which guys got the most attention.