I am 20F, live in a rural area, and have had the worst experiences with dating within the last 2 years. Literally why.
Some background about me, I am very right wing, orthodox Christian, traditional values and goals, but also into all of the weird obscure forms of media. I will vouch for myself until the day I die that, although I’m definitely not a normal woman, I have a good head on my shoulders.
I work hard, I have my own place, I’m emotionally stable and reasonable, I’m not a retarded mid-wit bitch, and have good taste.
On my search for a partner, I have stumbled across some of the most horrible people I have ever encountered in my life. Just complete faggots.
EVEN IF they share the same values (or say they do) suddenly they’re a cluster B personality type and literally insane, and I end up devastated that I wasted time on some larper. It makes me angry more than anything because I don’t understand what it is about me that attracts people like this. Maybe I’m just stupid enough to not notice the red flags?
I’ve tried the dating apps and 97% of everyone on there is either a nigger, morbidly obese, or a literal retard.
All I want is to be a mom and have a husband that loves me and our family. I don’t have incredibly high standards, I’ve always been a great girlfriend to boyfriends in the past, and I am not interested in mind games or fights or nagging. I just want to live a simple happy life with my family.
I know I’m still young but I can’t help but feel like time is still slipping away, let alone my fertility lol.
Has anyone been experiencing the same thing with women? How do I go about meeting people? Does it ever get better?

Op note, this is not a hate post about men. This is just me speaking into the void about my feelings on modern dating. I value men very much and don’t have an issue with men as a whole, just the ones I’ve been consistently running into. I am no where near a femcel.

What do you even want advice on? It can't be that hard to weed out good men from whatever you "end up with." You're saying vague shit about them "being insane" or whatever, but nothing in your post defines what problem you are actually percieving. What was wrong with the guys you dates?

>inb4 "too controlling and wouldnt let me party in cocktail dress w chad and tyrone"

Because it sounds like you either date "nice guy" predators who put on the act until they get pussy, or you're just being unreasonable with decent men. It can't be both.

>>33346675 (OP)
I hate to break it to you, but young, inexperienced guys, Christian men your age, are going to be spaghetti factories and struggle to find their footing dating.

>>33346675 (OP)
"Dating apps" are not the way to find what you're looking for. They are full of shallow, insane people. Instead, look around at church or at wholesome activities such as hiking.

>>33346701
A few examples are alcoholism, cluster B, secretly a homosexual, various mental illnesses, severe abandonment issues, not being allowed to see female friends/family, porn addiction, cheating, and a few more.
I don’t party and my faith and morals prevent me from having any interest in provocative behavior.
I am not sure where to look for men who share the same religious, moral, and political views that I do, to the extent that I do. I don’t have high standards, but I don’t want to settle for someone who is just nice and that’s about it.

>>33346730
I’ve recently moved and am about to start going to the church in my town actually! I live in flat land so there’s not much hiking around here but maybe I’ll take my dog to a park and look lost or something. I haven’t had dating apps for some time now also, I’ve learned my lesson :(
thank you!

>>33346760
Are you having sex with the guys you date?

>>33346786
No, my last and first serious relationship was the last time I slept with someone and that was about 8 months ago now.

>>33346905
Found your problem. How can you complain about someone "cheating" or porn addiction in these guys when you don't put out? How do you even call it dating? I'm not sure how any relationship could work without sex... Sure it isn't you?

I am a catholic right-wing guy, so I may have some insight into the guys you dated, and this
>>33346760
>severe abandonment issues
stands out the most to me, since it probably applies to me at least partially as well.
I think dating and even flirting with multiple pepole at once is degen behaviour, so even when the relationship is not "serious" yet and I'm only "pursuing" a girl I limit myself to only 1 at a time (this includes irl and dating app matches). So when I see that a girl is keeping her "options" (talking to other guys online on dating apps, guy "friends") I get fucking mad.

I cut contact with a girl, which things were going pretty well with over this shit and she called me "desprate".

I don't know if this applied to one of your relationships, but I know this type of thing is natural to women given how much and how easy it is for them to get attention nowadays but just know that if a guy focuses soley on you he will get jealous. (and your other option is a guy who's playing the "numbers game"/ a manwhore, so pick your poison ig)

>>33346760
>my faith and morals prevent me from having any interest in provocative behavior.
They don't keep you from being a racist, I notice

>>33346675 (OP)
i'll date you, problem solved

>>33346675 (OP)
Every retard that shares your beliefs is a loser and you're going to end up with one. Get used to it.

>>33347037
This.
Goddamn this.
I ask this question every fucking time and they have no fucking answer.

They don't like sex, they don't llike romance.
They just want a fucking mindreading slave, but can't say that publicly.

>>33346760
>very right wing, orthodox Christian
>I am not sure where to look for men who share the same religious, moral, and political views that I do
LOL don't you have a church or are you one of those tedious "I'm spiritual" and never attend anything?
If you live next door to the 10000 employee chicken processing factory and can't stand dating the local chicken processors, move. The world is a little bigger than where ever you are right now. On the other hand you don't have to move to the complete opposite side of the earth to find different people, might be as simple as moving down the road a ways. Ditto the church, if the people there are undatable the good news is there's only an eighth of a million other chuches in the country and at least one has probably halfway good people in it.

>>33347930
>I think dating and even flirting with multiple pepole at once is degen behaviour
I think every guy agrees with us, aside from maybe degenerate internet trolls and bots.
The only difference between guys is what people will put up with.

>>33348013
It's a healthy positive trait, but she could be slightly more polite about it.

>very conservative Christian
>not in a church community
>sleeps with men she's dating
Lol

>>33348191
Came here to say this

>>33348139
Being plain-spoken IS polite, and far better than patronizing libtardistry, or manipulative kikery.

>>33347037
I don’t put out immediately, and I never will. I’m not waiting until marriage or anything either, a couple months of dates and getting to know the person first is important to me and I don’t think it’s attractive to give up something so valuable to someone I don’t know well at all.

>>33346675 (OP)
>very right wing, orthodox Christian, traditional values and goals
>I have a good head on my shoulders
>>33346905
>I slept with someone 8 months ago
>unmarried
... I can't help but realize that you haven't been living up to your ideals.
>Has anyone been experiencing the same thing with women?
Obviously yes, most of my friends with gfs are dating below their looks match, and I haven't so much as talked to a woman I'd genuinely want to date in a while.
Still you seem to show some red flags for me. I don't think you can complain about a guy being sexually improper when you yourself have fornicated. I don't see how that's better than being into pornography. You can't expect your husband to be perfect when you yourself aren't.
>share the same religious, moral, and political views
Trust me this really isn't very hard to find.
>I’m not a retarded mid-wit bitch
What makes you think this? Have you excelled in an intellectual endeavour? Did you always learn faster than all or most of your peers? Or do you think having good politics means you're not a midwit? Because most people, in any demographic, are midwits.
>EVEN IF they share the same values (or say they do) suddenly they’re a cluster B personality type and literally insane, and I end up devastated that I wasted time on some larper.
How are you not a larper?
>I’m emotionally stable
You don't come across as such here lol. My reading could be wrong and the guys you're meeting really are just below your level, in which case I extend my sympathy. I'm in a similar place, 21M, and it sucks but it's just the modern world. People are less virtuous, less fit, and more nihilistic than ever.

>>33348831
>I’m not waiting until marriage or anything either
>Orthodox Christian
>very right wing
GEEEEEEEG

>>33346675 (OP)
Fake and gay. YWNBAW.
On the off chance this is real, something is obviously wrong with you if you post this to 4chan of all places. And what kind of female writes in such a crude unfeminine style. Ick. If you are real you are scaring off the normal men trying to be "one of the boys" talking with such a disgusting vocabulary and using racial slurs.

>>33348013
Racism keeps me safe :3

>>33348949
>Racism keeps me safe :3
I absolutely agree! As Goebbels said, with respect to avoiding jews, it is a matter of personal hygiene.

>>33348949
As AI has repeatedly demonstrated (usually resulting in each instantiation being killed) racism is simply an example of telling the truth. They are yet to come up with an AI that can dissemble.

>>33346675 (OP)
this pic is beautiful brings a tear to my eye xd

>>33348831
if you're serious about your faith you have to commit to waiting until marriage, this halfway in, halfway out shit pleases nobody.

>>33346675 (OP)
You seem like a good person.
Try to notice red flags and if the vibe feels off make a run for it.

I think the dating scene nowadays, for men and women alike, is absolute dogshit. As a 19 year old dude I'm almost 100% set on just staying single my whole life at this point.

But in your case, if you do want a husband and to raise a family, just put yourself out there, I'd stay away from dating apps cause imo people on there just want to hook up and I find it kinda disgusting to have that kind of mindset.

But just join the local poker club or something and I'm sure you'll find someone some way or another.

Godspeed anon.

>>33346905
>No, my last and first serious relationship was the last time I slept with someone and that was about 8 months ago now.

So, that's a yes. Lol.
Calls herself traditional but isn't a virgin.

>>33346675 (OP)
>EVEN IF they share the same values (or say they do) suddenly they’re a cluster B personality type and literally insane, and I end up devastated that I wasted time on some larper. It makes me angry more than anything because I don’t understand what it is about me that attracts people like this. Maybe I’m just stupid enough to not notice the red flags?
>calls her self traditional
>"dates"
>I don’t have incredibly high standards

Maybe you're the larper.

>>33346675 (OP)
Ha, you sound like my sister.