>be me
>queer man in a not queer part of the city im from
>all my old friends only talk about sport and sex theyre not having with women
>through work, befriend two queer women, this workplace does NOT have openly queer people usually
>never felt so seen and understood in a platonic way in my life
>think the world of both of these people despite flaws they have
>one of them is a recovering alcoholic
>ffwd 6 months
>the alco gets out of rehab, really trying to better herself
>the sober one messages me, saying she needs a friend to talk too
>tldr, the alco was drunk/high and SA'd the sober friend all night last Saturday

I cant speak to the drunkard ever again, I really wished for them to be the best version of themselves but they've ruined any goodwill me and the sober friend had for her. Now were genuinely so lost as what to do. The sober friend is closeted so can't talk to anyone about it, plus there's no way to tangibly prove it so the drunkard will get off Scott free.

As for me, I feel so ashamed I had so much time for such a broken individual, I wanted to see them better themselves and for a while that was the case. Now I feel like I've lost a friend, as well as having to deal with them being a monster. As for my sober friend, I want to do everything I can to help them, but naturally they need time to themselves.

I guess I need advice on how to process all of the moving parts going on here.

>>33346729 (OP)
> Queer queer queer.

This is why no one likes you people, your whole personality is defined by your sexuality.

>>33346729 (OP)
One relapse is fairly common, and not a reason to give up on her. Two would be.

>>33346769
This. KYS, OP