>>33346897 (OP)
Is she stupid or naive or something? Like genuinely this should not be an issue.
Just tell her to watch her drink/drinking and go out with friends and tell someone if you start feeling weird. Ofc also call me if anything happens yada yada.
If you are talking about violence then I hope you live in a country that lets women defend themselves with something more than a keychain "taser".

>>33347036
No like not to go over to guys houses late at night etc.

>>33346897 (OP)
As a father you have to set the standard. You do that by embodying what she should value in men Vs. telling her or lecturing her. Kids never listen to their parents, it goes in one ear and out the other.

What kids lay attention to though is how you treat them and how you yourself lead your life. If you establish a loving and trusting parental relationship to your daughter, and you exemplify yourself as a man who isn't a degenerate or a gooner or an addict or a victim or a victimizer, then she will only seek men or situations who share the same values. She won't ever get in a situation to be raped because she will automatically avoid anything that doesn't match the standards that you embodied.

>>33346897 (OP)
Daughters will either be receptive to good advice or completely immune to it. You should probably have that figured out by now.

You've got the right idea telling her not to go to guys' houses late at night. That will generally be good advice for her whole life, not just in rape avoidance.

Inform her that "giving a chance" to men viewed to be losers is an extremely bad idea. Tell her to rely on the social validation system and to essentially let her social group pick which guys are good for dating. The social validation system will keep guys out by scaring off loners and losers and will, in essence, bully her into not hanging out with creepy retards (don't mention this part to her). Tell her to never go to a guy's house alone until he's been socially validated. You hopefully don't need to, but tell her to avoid mama's boys and guys without a father present in their lives like AIDS. Tell her never to have sex with a drug dealer, even if it's for a free dose.

t. former corrections officer who learned way more than I should have. Most of our sexers were fatherless mama's boys with few friends, and their victims were generally girls that didn't have bigger friend groups. Even with the ones that were dating their victim, it started out consensual and when the victim tried saying "no," that was unacceptable.

>>33347036
>Just tell her to watch her drink/drinking and go out with friends and tell someone if you start feeling weird.
The vast majority of rape happens between people who know each other, anon. Thinking that rape is something that usually happens at knife point in dark alleys is a very naive, virgin mindset.

>>33346897 (OP)
Well, for starters, stop blaming women for rape. If you do then, if she has any sense at all, she will stop listening to you, because what you're saying is self-evidently nonsensical. Instead what you need to do is say "If you go out and leave a window open, and a burglar gets in and takes your stuff, OBVIOUSLY the only person who should be blamed for this is the burglar; only a lunatic would blame you. But, given that we live in an imperfect world, unfortunately it is advisable to close and lock the windows when you go out, and that's just what people do." Then you go on to say the same about rape: manifestly the only person to blame for rape is the rapist and it is ridiculous to suggest that women are ever responsible; but that nonetheless there are certain precautions that most people take, and it makes things easier if you join them. That, hopefully, will make her receptive to whatever practical advice you have.

The other thing you need to remember is what this anon pointed out:

>>33347181
>The vast majority of rape happens between people who know each other, anon.

It is extremely dangerous to think of rape as a woman being attacked by a stranger. Yeah, drink spiking and even assaults on the street happen sometimes, but most of the time it's someone you know. So, tragically, you need to just as careful with friends and acquaintances as you would be with a stranger; and you can't afford to let your guard down with someone you're dating, either.

>>33347172
But there are "winners" who are rapists too.

So how the fuck do you even stop this

>>33346897 (OP)
depends, do you live in a white area or a colonized area?

>>33347172
>Inform her that "giving a chance" to men viewed to be losers is an extremely bad idea.

Loser is a relative term. In the eyes of womanizers and fuck boys, I'm a loser for being married with kids.

>Tell her to rely on the social validation system and to essentially let her social group pick which guys are good for dating.
This can be good, or really bad. It would depend on the social group. If the social group is full of reprobates, then this method goes to shit.

>Tell her to avoid mama's boys and guys without a father present in their lives like AIDS.
Mama's boys typically treat their women well, if and only if their relationship to mama was good. In the case of absent father, yeah high chance they got issues. But a man who preferred Mom to Dad isn't a reason to avoid.

>t. former corrections officer
>Most of our sexers were fatherless Mama's boys with few friends
The reason they have few male friends is because they hate other men usually. Mama's boy is more of a threat to other males, not females. Fatherless Mama's boys are a threat to anyone if their background was shit.

>Even with the ones that were dating their victim, it started out consensual and when the victim tried saying "no," that was unacceptable.

Take a guess where they learned "no" was unacceptable? From their mothers. Single moms are a bit of a blight that way. They can't reach boundaries to a kid, at all. So the kid becomes an adult who can't understand people's boundaries either.

Anyway your advice barks up the wrong tree. Most men who abuse women are men who were abused by their moms in some form, verbal or physical. Just a shit relationship to the female role model. So they got no problem taking it out on women they date. No idea why you can call that 'mama's boy'. I guarantee you if you learned just a bit more, you'd find out those boys' mothers wreaked havoc on them in upbringing.

If she says it's not rape, it's not rape.
She is free, like a bird, you can't do nothing about it.
Let her know you love her and you support her decisions.
Love you anon.

>>33347181
>The vast majority of rape happens between people who know each other, anon. Thinking that rape is something that usually happens at knife point in dark alleys is a very naive, virgin mindset.

Depends on where you live. Past three rapes in my area were all random attacks. But statistically what you say is true overall. Majority does happen between people who know each other.

But just throwing that statement out on its own is misleading. Because it implies friends rape you, or boyfriends, or husbands. In actuality, it occurs from step-fathers, step-siblings, and cousins and sometimes uncles. When its said “between people who know each other”, it simply means people who know OF each other. That could mean anyone, but typically it means its from individuals who your parent(s) let into the home. Often from divorced mama letting perverts into her home.

>>33347536
>you need to just as careful with friends and acquaintances as you would be with a stranger; and you can't afford to let your guard down with someone you're dating, either.

This is PTSD mentality. You shouldnt be dating anyone you have to have your guard up against in the first place.

>>33347172
>Tell her to rely on the social validation system and to essentially let her social group pick which guys are good for dating
Horrible, horrible idea. Young women are not good at doing this.

>>33347172
>Tell her never to have sex with a drug dealer, even if it's for a free dose.
that's not rape

>>33348144
>that's not rape
it is in 2025. women are innocent angels who can do no wrong, any circumstance they end up in is never through any fault of their own. If she makes regrettable actions, it cannot be from her own faults. She instead must have been abused or manipulated into it by other factors, she is the victim. Always.

>>33348201
people can say that or express it on social media but in the real world someone having sex for a good or service is prostitution not rape

>>33346897 (OP)
Rape is incredibly rare. Most women are either lying about it (buyers remorse) or flattering themselves that they in constant danger of rape.

If she hasn't been raised in a strict sharia environment early on, she will most likely end up a whore. There are many such cases.

>>33347991
>You shouldnt be dating anyone you have to have your guard up against in the first place.
Well, that's the dumbest statement I've read on 4chan today. Are you expecting women to be mind-readers? Or do you think rapists have the word "rapist" tattooed on their forehead? They look exactly like anyone else, and there is no way to tell. In roughly 25% of rapes the preparator is the woman's current or former boyfriend.

>>33346897 (OP)
Let me give you some good advice, which is rare about this subject. Because usually it's all like 4chan woman-hating cope gibberish vs. SJW globohomo indoctrination nonsense.
>>33347118
Yes like tell her not be naive. Don't be alone with a man unless you are enthusiastically willing to have sex with him. 95% of the time if a male pays attention to her at all it's because he is thinking of having sex with her. If that guy is older or has no reason to be talking to her (i.e. they don't work or take a class together) then that goes up to 99.9%. Tell her a man will never ask her for directions, a man will never ask her for a smoke or a lighter, or for help unloading from the back his van, unless he has an ulterior motive. When men want help or information they'd go to another man.
Tell her not to go to parties full of trash people. Don't get drunk or high unless she's in a 100% safe environment, with mostly people she knows, where she can sleep and not have to get a ride.
Tell her not to act like "prey", like a passive people-pleaser who can't say no. If she can't do basic thinks like say "no" if a guy asks for her number, or for her to go for a ride, she shouldn't be allowed outside the house without a chaperone. Rapists can smell weakness like a shark can smell a drop of blood in the ocean, tell her not to act weak.

>>33348439
Found the incel with no friends. You're confused because the normie men don't invite you to their rape parties.

>>33348907
>Well, that's the dumbest statement I've read on 4chan today. Are you expecting women to be mind-readers?

It’s not dumb, it just went over your head. Or I didn’t elaborate enough. I’ll give the benefit of the doubt, I’ll assume I didn’t elaborate enough here:

If (you) are someone who ‘has their guard up’ in a relationship, then you should not be in that relationship. Because:
>It shows the person you are dating is mentally/emotionally harmful to you, that you cannot lower your guard.
or
>You have issues, baggage, unresolved trauma, and you should not be dating anyone until you get sorted out.

Or both. That is what I mean. It is abnormal as fuck to date someone only to have your guard up. You only should have your guard up against attackers or abusers. If you are putting your guard up against someone, then why date them? There is no logic there.


>They look exactly like anyone else, there is no way to tell.
Unless someone has ASD (autistic spectrum disorder), then you can easily tell who the rapists are from the non-rapists. You look for red flags, look for pushy behaviour, look for disregarding of boundaries, look for anything that suggests malevolent or degenerate behavioural patterns. The signs are always available to notice. But if you cannot or will not acknowledge them, you will always be easily manipulated or taken advantage of.

>>33347536
How am I blaming women?

>>33348144
I should have elaborated more. I meant that a lot of drug dealers will use a free dose as a buy-in for sex, then not long after sex will be expected in order to get that dose. At that point, they will start getting pushy and demanding sex from the young women, leading to rapes.

Tell her to not dress provocatively.

>>33346897 (OP)
tell her when you were young you dressed provocativley and were careless and you were raped, and that you do not want the same to happen to her, then pretend to cry a little.

>>33349012
based and grounded-in-reality pilled
people like to give advice to women for a world that doesn't exist, while simultaneously infantilizing women and subtracting all personal responsibility and agency from anything that happens to them. Absolutely nobody 'deserves' to be raped or sexually assaulted, but if you can't accept the basic realities of our sexual dynamics and want to live in a fairly tale land where men aren't interested in sex or where you refuse to exercise any actual will or autonomy and just say yes to everything, then you dont get to go outside and operate in society alone.

"equality" in social spaces only works because we treat women like retarded children.

i had a similar argument about setting boundaries in relationships. a guy tells a woman "i dont want you to go out to that party without me" or "i dont want you getting drunk around other guys". she says that controlling and manipulative and im like 'what the fuck?'
outside of marriage, its impossible to be controlled by a direct boundary in a relationship. all adult relationships are voluntary and its your fault for accepting it or not having the will to leave someone you wont be happy with.
i hate having to socially baby women so hard. id be much more amicable to having women be socially/culturally equal if they were actually expected to act like adults.

end of rant.

>>33346897 (OP)
Teach her how to properly conceal carry one of these and have her take a self defense class when to draw / law stuff.

It's the one force equalizer that permits your daughter to level the field in her favor to protect herself no matter where she is.