Is paying for companionship, escorts or sex worth it?

>>33351321 (OP)
no. its porn with extra steps. you will neve get what is meaningful from a paid affair.

>>33351321 (OP)
If you don't feel guilty about paying for them, do it. Don't even doubt it. Do it! DO IT

>>33351321 (OP)
Just take acid and jack off. Beats the fuck out of fucking a hooker. Or just take acid and have sex.

>>33351321 (OP)
Not in my experience, no.

>this thread yet again
Is this going to be the new, "Help me /adv/ I can't get laid but refuse to change myself or what I'm doing," thread?

>>33351321 (OP)
I'd imagine it's the same as fucking a whore that's just after your money, or getting spoiled. She's waiting for the sex to be over so the next transaction can happen.

>>33351321 (OP)
"If I could rub my belly to make my hunger go away I would do that too"
-Diogenes on masturbating in public

>>33351321 (OP)
i mean… they don’t love you. so no

>>33351321 (OP)
If you want just to hit the sack without any drama or wasted time is totally worth it, but if you are looking for someone to spend time with is not.

My answer is depends on what are you looking for.

Would you guys say the gf experience is an actual gf experience or does it depend on the hooker?

>>33351321 (OP)
Far left next question

>>33351321 (OP)
Like most things; It is worth it but only exactly one (1) time. This is for you to kill the curiosity and expand your range of human experience.
Buying a prostitute twice is a mistake and a slippery slope. I wasted years fucking hookers. Each time was the last, I said. I realized the first time was the only halfway decent and satisfying experience. Only the first. Like with any drug or vice. You’re always chasing the first.
You’re better off never doing it. But you’re going to try it, spare no expense, get the best 2-3 hookers at once that money can buy. Fuck til your balls deflate. Savor every moment. Because nothing will beat the first time. Make sure it’s your only time.

>>33351321 (OP)
In my third marriage (which is also my third long term relationship over 5 years) I am so thoroughly exhausted of the dating process that if this relationship ever went down, I am probably doing escorts for the rest of my life.

Well fucking worth it imo if youre really not looking for a long term relationship.

>>33353401
GFE means kissing and cuddling and more engagement is involved.

FYI a normal one night stand mostly always qualifies as a "GFE". It is not the experience of having sex with a girlfriend.

>>33351321 (OP)
The whole paying a hooker for sex would make me feel dirty, not religiously or morally but I'd just feel like a loser. The only time I ever even slightly considered it was to gain sexual experience

>>33351321 (OP)
More no than yes, even worse if you're made to use a condom which most, if not all, will make you wear one. Condoms kill the experience but the novelty wears off quickly and they want you to cum as quick as possible and to leave as soon as possible.

>>33351321 (OP)
Never give women money for whatever reason, especially not for sex.

>>33354133
>leave as soon as possible
skill issue

>>33351321 (OP)
It's fine. It's not worth it for losing your virginity, but if you're just bored and horny and have the cash, why not. Particularly if you're abroad it can be fun.

>>33351321 (OP)
You're always paying for companionship.

>>33351321 (OP)
almost never.

>>33357189
I'm not disagreeing with that. It helps to have a fun or interesting personality, to make conversation with them and chop it up, shoot the shit, but their bottom line is money

>>33351321 (OP)
It's only worth it if you're learning to have sex for your future gf.

>>33351382
He is just asking about hookers ffs.
>>33357211
>It's not worth it for losing your virginity
Not OP but it absolutely is. There is nothing more emasculating than being a male virgin. The term literally means "Young Woman" in Latin.

>>33357335
>your future gf.
lol
lmao

>>33351321 (OP)
No. You're better off using that money to pretend you're wealthy on a tinder date. Vast majority of online dates end in sex from my experience, unless one party is completely unattracted to the other. It's kind of a sunk cost situation.
Prostitutes like picrel will be expensive af. Most prostitutes who'd fuck you for less than $300 are digusting junkies or black women.

>>33358405
>Not OP but it absolutely is. There is nothing more emasculating than being a male virgin. The term literally means "Young Woman" in Latin.

The reason it's a big deal to lose your virginity is that it signals biological competence. Paying for it doesn't count. Unless your'e in your 30s or something,.

>>33351321 (OP)
Yes if it’s been a while and you just want to blow off some steam. No otherwise. Be careful not to confuse emotional and physical needs. A lot of men think they are chasing sex when they actually are chasing validation, approval, companionship, even meaning. Escorts would give you physical gratification but it would just be a high you will come down from quicker than you think. If you want the high, go for it but don’t expect anything else. And like any high don’t get hooked on it or it becomes a detriment.

>>33359216
Your virginity is literally only an issue in your head. Nobody knows. And very likely no woman is going to ask. It doesn’t signal anything unless you tell somebody. If you disappoint the first woman you’re with, whatever who cares? More than you think won’t care bc once she’s actually having sex with you she already likes you quite a bit. And if she does care fine, just find another one. You’re not a loser because you’re a virgin. You’re a virgin bc you’re a loser. And guess what, if you’re charming, in good shape, making good money and have an active social life you won’t be perceived as a loser. Just do the work.

>>33351321 (OP)
>is paying for delusion worth it?
Nope. Those women think only about the dollar bills. If you wasn't present and even so they could have your money, they would choose that.

>>33362481
>Your virginity is literally only an issue in your head.
Nope, nature says otherwise. I know this because I'm an 18 year old kissless virgin planning to go to brothel to have sex at least once in my life. I don't give a shit if the girls are trafficked, the shame of being a young woman (what virgin means) is ruining my life.

>>33351321 (OP)
As an alternative to casual sex and playing the dating game, absolutely.

As a substitute for a romantic longer-term relationship with a gf, no. You do that in more organic settings while you finish coming into your own by fucking escorts.

>>33351382
>Is this going to be the new, "Help me /adv/ I can't get laid but refuse to change myself or what I'm doing," thread?
If you have to change yourself, you already lost. Normal people don't have to go on a 10 year self-improvement grind to get sex, you fucking retard. Are you gonna tell OP to just get a hobby next? You sub 80 IQ tard.

>>33351321 (OP)
I tried it twice and theyre always so bitchy and soulless that I didnt get hard at all. And they belittled me for that.

Im always beating off to bimbos and theres this bimbo in town with soccer ball sized tits and ass and Im always tempted but i think of my experiences and chicken out.

Honestly i feel even more lonely around them than being alone.

Maybe im just too sensitive for the nature of fucking a hooker.

>>33351321 (OP)
is this a video game

>>33366724
>And they belittled me for that.
What did they say? They have always been nice for the most part since I'm paying for them.

>>33351321 (OP)
women as a whole aren't worth it desu, sure get married if you can find a normal sane woman(lol) but never expect it to be this amazing experience that will elevate your life. ironically enough in my experience the people who were less invested in women&marriage had more success with women and marriage, i think it has something with them not having anything to lose but idk

>>33354040
>expand your range of human experience.
should i skin a dog and watch how long it takes for it to die to expand my human experience? i feel like that's a stupid way to think about things, some experiences should be avoided

>>33351321 (OP)
Once a year will keep you sane.
t. 4 year drought recently broken but now I’m actually broken

>>33367162
Just like

Why arent you hard??

Or

Just look. You have nothing right now!

Just rude.

>>33351321 (OP)
Those women are perfectly crafted for BIC (Big Indian Cock)!!!

>>33367749
Sorry to say but the escort scene really has degraded ever since COVID has taken a hit though the decline really started back with FOSTA in 2018 (assuming you live in america). Now you got hoes and slampigs trying to get the most money out of you like upselling you while doing the least amount of work.

>>33351321 (OP)
Are you an emotionally distant sociopath/aspie who wants to masturbate with someone else's body without attachment? Do you make good money? Do you have good street smarts? Bonus if you have a weird or uncommon fetish that makes normal chicks look at you like dirt.
If yes, great, you're ready to become a John. You need to make sure you find good whores. I've seen some batshit insane chicks, others are mediocre, but eventually you'll find a regular if you take some chances. The chick I'm seeing now is into the same fetish as I am so I pay reduced fees. Fuckin great now but had to wade through the dregs to get here.
usasexguide is a good resource. Good luck out there champ

>>33370121
>masturbate with someone else's body
spotted the roastie

Escorts (when legal) are 100% worth it, don't let sore poorfags here convince you otherwise. If you are honest with yourself, and most men aren't, you know that, without the possibility of sex, most women just aren't worth being around. Most women are stupid, suck at hobbies, and unoriginal and thus, by extension, not funny. It's not their fault, you'd turn out that way too if you grew up surrounded by sycophants and were given free food every week.

Escorts just make explicit the contract that exists between men and women. Men want sex, women want everything else. Men provide everything else, women provide sex. With escorts you get to skip all the intermediate steps, complaining and bitchiness. It is cheaper in the long run and the short run. Be respectful and clear about what you want, she'll appreciate that too. Some escorts suck but don't let a few bad apples ruin all the fun. It's also the only way many men will experience sex before their 30s when women want to "settle down".

>>33376762
I can’t afford the pretty ones, anon. I’ve checked those online catalogs, and those whoremonger’s reports in forums. And the prostitutes are really ugly.
I rather go back to school and rape a clasmate.

>>33351321 (OP)
No

It is a) an admission that you cannot find these things otherwise and b) providing an outlet for your most retarded self.

Assuming you want some degree of normality as you age I.e. healthy, happy relationship, raising a family and being a provider and carer for those you love, this sort of thing is the antithesis of that and paves the way to a lonely sort of hell

Both paid and worked as one (I’m a straight dude).

It’s straight humping with the fake politeness of a retail worker making a big sale. You might form a friendly relationship with regulars but it’s never a genuine connection.

It’s great if you’re just horny and want to fuck like an animal with no strings attached. As the famous saying goes ‘you don’t pay for sex you pay them to leave’.

I fucked a lot in my 20s and I’ll say it’s fun but hollow. After awhile you want someone you can share moments with and connect to, you’ll never get that from a sex worker.

>>33376779
>being a provider and carer for those you love
Sounds like a nice way to say "Betabuxx".

>>33351321 (OP)
no, you better remain sexless and awkward around women, leave them for me
all women belong to me

>>33376964
In what possible sense is it "beta" to care for those you love? Would your father be an "alpha" if he decides to run around fucking other women, or what?

>>33351321 (OP)
I went to a whore once, out of curiosity. glad I did, it was a good bj and she had a great ass.
sex is more interesting with a woman who's crazy for you though.

>>33358405
True.

>>33377122
>Would your father be an "alpha" if he decides to run around fucking other women, or what?
Yes, because in nature, that's what an "Alpha" is. Clint Eastwood produced like 10 children (possibly more we don't know of). The fact that he didn't stick to one woman doesn't make him inferior to some manlet """'providing""" for a wife who hates him just because moralfags imply otherwise.

>>33377234
Where is this from?

>>33367551
Autism moment

bhress... 70€ to fuck this colombiana in the ass
that hole looks good as hell dog...

You should only be going to an escort to get your dick wet. That's it. Going for companionship or other physical, non-sexual intimacy is ultimately hollow.

Totally worth it. Worth every penny. Make sure she's a delicious one and trust satan on it.

>>33367551
retarded false equivalence

>>33377497
>having kids with one woman makes you a beta!
This is your brain on 4chan.

>>33378396
here's pic damn

>>33378624
Cope harder, Sub5. No desired man stays celibate.

Just booked an escort for this weekend. Im a 30 year old virgin.

You guys have any advice how to not drop my spaghetti in front of her and embarrass myself?

>>33376762
I can afford it, sex just isn't that interesting to me to care. I can jerk off for free at home then piss that money on something that'll last longer.

>>33377503
Michiel de Vaan's 2008 _Etymological Dictionary of Latin and the other Italic Languages_.