Thread 33351453 - /adv/ [Archived: 922 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/12/2025, 9:54:21 AM No.33351453
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Should I ask this woman to become fwb out of the blue? We had a date 2 years ago and kind of let that go off but she gives me some femcel vibes, idk
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 10:33:22 AM No.33351564
Depending on whether the date was good or bad, but the lack of a second date tells me it was probably bad.

Do you still keep in contact with her? It'd be kind of weird to ask her that so randomly. If you're still on good terms, maybe try asking her, you only live once anyways, might as well have fun.

I still think it'd be awkward to phrase the question though, like don't be like "Hey, can I be fwbs with you?" That's offputting ngl. Try a second date or something, and say you've taken an interest in her again/you like her. After it, say that you'd like to keep things casual atm.

If she accepts, great! If not, that's okay. No harm in asking, like I said.
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Anonymous
7/12/2025, 10:52:29 AM No.33351627
>>33351564
We tried a second but the time made us apart I guess, we met on a date app. We follow each other at IG and that's it, I might try reaching to her for a second date or to befriend her if anything
loveualatte
7/12/2025, 10:55:48 AM No.33351639
I think what is done is done, leave it behind and move on.
You can still try befriend her, but give it some time before you ask for anything sexual
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 12:51:28 PM No.33351902
>>33351453 (OP)
If you talk to her and she seems receptive, your chances are good. If not, you probably aren't missing too much. It is super obvious advice I know, but it can seem more complicated than it is when you could get rejected.

>fwb
Don't be a fag. If you want something low-key, just call it that.
Anonymous
7/12/2025, 3:45:09 PM No.33352406
>>33351453 (OP)
"Hi. Remember me? Wanna fuck?"

Either way, it saves time.