>>33352208 (OP)Closure doesn't exist, anon, and it would make no difference anyhow. You want things to make sense in an if-then way, that there is an understandable, logical reason for things that if you only knew, it would make the situation more palatable. If she told you it was due to something you were "failing" at from her perspective, then you could obsess over that thing and either tear yourself down about it or try to "fix" it, but it wouldn't change anything, it wouldn't get her back, and things are never that simple anyway. She said she doesn't want to be with you and that she lost feelings, that is your closure, you don't need more information, you need to accept things for what they are, that you're not together anymore, and move forward. No matter what answers you're looking for, the real reason is obvious: she doesn't want to be with you. That's all there is to it, there is no "why" to be known, there's nothing that's going to make it easier, and there's nothing you could have done differently or better. You had a good 10 months and that's all it was and needed to be. We don't get forevers, just moments with someone that we give meaning to. Cherish it for what it was, and let it go so that it can flourish as good memories and not rot and become bitterness.
