I am having severe trouble relating to people. What do i do?
>browse 4chan
>dont relate, these people are alien to me
>go on reddit
>dont relate, these people are alien to me
>youtube comments
>dont relate, these people are alien to me
>real life
>dont relate, these people are alien to me
what am i even supposed to do? The way people talk, the way they respond to certain things, it just really feels so different from me. Like they can understand each other but i cant understand them. i feel so alien and disconnected from everyone. My core values, my emotions, my world view, its all incompatable and alien it seems to everyone else, i just cant relate to other people at all

i relate to you

>>33353944 (OP)
you’re an arrogant prick and you think you’re better than everyone. that’s why you can’t ‘relate’ to people because you see them as beneath you in some way.

>>33353949
While I do appreciate the attempted emotional support, if you do truly relate to me then you probably understand just as well as I do that, If me and you were to truly get into it and discuss, perhaps, our personal, philosophical, moral views, discuss our emotional reactions to the world, and discuss the various other elements of our personalities It is unfortunately most likely that we would find ourselves at odds once more. And it's very well possible that our relation may only go in so far as our inability to connect with others. Not to be rude or dismissive.I am simply trying to clarify the situation that we now find ourselves in.

>>33353960
Well, I suppose I should clarify, no, it is not because I view myself as higher than or lesser than them. I understand that's a common sort of belief, but it's not what I wrangle with. I don't think I'm better than them. I just find their views alien. I find their reactions to things very strange. I find their personal views not necessarily better or worse, but simply unintelligible, incomprehensible, and very foreign and hard to understand. And this goes for people's axioms of morality, to their general personalities, and so on.I do understand your confusion, though, and yes, that is the most common form of this sort of alienation, which I see discussed online,But I assure you, I do not view myself as superior to others.

>>33353944 (OP)
tumblr?

>>33353980
you aren’t smart enough to make sweeping generalizations about 8 billion people. quit trying and own up to the fact that you aren’t better or different.

>>33353993
Hold on let me check hold on...ok i genuinely tried it but the layout was vey confusing and i unironically couldnt figure it out

>>33354009
excuse me? i think you're responding to the wrong thread. I made no generalizations. I also didn't claim to be better then anyone. You're a cunt, just leave me alone

>>33354021
it only hurts cause it’s true bitch

>>33353968
I'm too retarded to do that

>>33354070
It doesnt hurt, it is just annoying. Actually, you know what, it does hurt a bit because this is the sort of disconnect im talking about. THIS is what im talking about when i say i cant relate to people. I cant even grasp the point you are making, and you dont see mine, its happening all over again.
>>33354075
Ok

>>33354101
you think you’re special and different and you aren’t, and now you’re seething because you got called out and can’t handle the truth

>>33354218
uh huh, k. good to know, lol

>>33353960
Ad hominem, strawman, false cause, mind reading fallacy, begging the question, moralizing.
>>33354009
Strawman, gatekeeping, false dichonomy, well poisoning, tone policing
>>33354070
circular reasoning, gaslighting (lol.), ad hominem, emotional appeals
>>33354218
mind reading fallacy, strawman, more gaslighting, scotsman fallacy, appeal to ridicule, motivated reasoning

>>33354226
>>33354258
double reply kek what a seething bitch

>>33354269
Ad hominem. Gaslighting. Ad ridiculum.Tone policing, red herring. projection. well poisoning.
(also thx 4 bumping my thread so much, thank you)

>>33353944 (OP)
>list of sm comments sites.
There are no people online, let alone "relatable" ones. Go outside.

>>33354361
I mean, to be fair, i have gone outside. i met people at my gym, monthly block parties, ect. even then there is this weird disconnect that i have difficulty getting over

>>33353944 (OP)
People don't "relate" to each other. They make an exchange. You are looking for something that is not there.

>>33353944 (OP)
I feel the same way. I think I understand animals more than humans. I don't understand people. When I try to be nice, it seems like they're bored with me

Regarding the internet, I think it's impossible to socialize as an adult. Adults don't use 4chan or Reddit, and if they do, they're probably very immature. This repels me. I don't want to interact with shameless and unsympathetic people who spend their time sharing pornography, making fun of others, and insulting others, even though I've been that way myself.

>>33353944 (OP)
embrace your status as zarathustra tier. continue to transcend and one day you can help us if you wish.

>>33353944 (OP)
Do you have any examples of beliefs that fit this, either that you see others have which you dont or ones which you have that others dont? Or at least what nature of beliefs are they (political, philosophical, moral, practical, etc)

>>33353960
>>33354009
average advice consumer

>>33354101
You're getting frustrated because your mind isn't processing what people are saying in the way you'd prefer. I get it. Same issues. I'm too verbose and shit gets lost in translation, frequently misunderstood because of it

>>33358240
alright, one example, people are scared of death and see stuff like the death penalty as worse then life imprisonment. people believe in opposites. I dont see it. where are these opposites? Another, someone once said "you cant have up without down" and i wonder why, i disagree, i think you can. People have a stronger reaction to death, too. My parent died and i kept wondering, when is it going to feel bad? When will i feel that strong emotion? I will soon maybe? Nope, years later, didnt. They divide people up into categories. All men are x, all women y, all black this, all whites that. I, however, see them as all literally the exact same entity, its all the same thing, and me too am this entity, we all are. Most dont see that.