I don't feel particularly healthy sexually because of abusing porn. Last week I binged porn and masturbated like 8 times. Since then, I haven't wanted to really look at porn because I felt sick afterwards. What would be the proper and healthy way to maintain having a sexuality? What fucks me up is that I feel like I can never jerk off just once. It always leads to bingeing. But I don't want to be one of those "nofap" cultists who believe in never masturbating again. Is there no real middle ground? I have tried masturbating without porn and I can do it but it feels way less satisfying which makes me want to binge. If it felt as good, I probably wouldn't feel like bingeing. Realistically here is what I want:

1. A healthy hetero sexual male sexuality
2. No reliance on porn
3. A healthy and positive outlook on sex

I find that my outlook on sex is terrible and I have come to weird conclusions like women will abuse the lizard sex brain of women for evil needs. Or how jacking off is going to eventually destroy my life etc. I just want a positive and healthy outlook on sex. Because right now, I feel absolutely poisoned.

it's pretty harmless and free. Anyway just spend more time out of the house.

>>33357750
It doesn't seem like its harmless.

>>33357694 (OP)
I would recommend not looking at porn at all for 90 days. Porn can really fuck your sex drive up and cause you to jack off out of compulsion rather than genuine horniness.
You can still let yourself masturbate, but only when you are actually horny (like you have a full erection and cannot get lustful thoughts out of your head). If your sex drive is particularly fucked up it you may have a flatline where you have no sexual desire for a few weeks to a couple months after quitting porn.
After those 90 days, it depends what you want to do. For me I look at porn half the time and use my imagination the other half. And I only watch a single video or look at a couple pictures. I don't think cutting off porn entirely is good for your sanity if you don't have a girlfriend (especially given how shitty the dating market is nowadays), but you also don't want to be addicted to it either.

>>33357851
Okay. I will try this. It really seems like porn fucks up men way worse than it fucks up women. Do women even get strung out on porn like this?

>>33357694 (OP)
Dude, please don't do that shit to a partner. Not everyone is trying to manipulate you. Use your best ability to judge and reason out why they would do that. If she just wants comfort, loves you, and wants to mutually coom with you, see it for what it is. Sex with my partner gives me validation in a lot of ways, makes me feel more comfortable in my own skin, lets me treat him and make him feel good. It's just that. If you're with someone trying to use you for like drugs or a happy meal, I guess I get it.

>>33357694 (OP)
8 times....a week??? wow how horrible, that's just awful OP

Literally just fap before and after sleep and don't be a fag about it lol