Wife is trying to kidnap my 5yo son - /adv/ (#33357847) [Archived: 540 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:35:21 PM No.33357847
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> Lost my SWE job in the Bay Area
> Got another job in Seattle
> Wife works as LVN making ~80k
> Wife initially agrees that I take our kid, but she insist to stay
> Marriage not working since 2024
> Apartment lease ends and she threatens to live in her car
> She lives with her friend
> She wants divorce
> She sues me for Domestic Violence, Divorce and emergency child return
> Her salary can't pay shit in the Bay Area, I can afford supporting everyone here
> I offer her to move in, live in a separate room, I pay her expenses
> She admits her job is easy and she doesn't want to change it.

She cheated in the school that gave her the diploma, I was helping her passing exams with ChatGPT.

I think if she lost her job It would be easier for me to convince the judge that our son should stay with me.

How do I make her employ
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:40:20 PM No.33357872
>>33357847 (OP)
Assuming this is real, you are fucked.
She is going to get child support, so it's irrelevant if she finds a job or not, as your income is going to be paying for everything she does.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:44:11 PM No.33357889
>>33357872
it is fucking real.
The point is to have my son live in Seattle, even when supporting her.
Besides she has a history of depression, suicide attempts, 911 calls and a brain tumor.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:45:24 PM No.33357893
>>33357847 (OP)
It's hard to follow what exactly happened here. This line "Wife initially agrees that I take our kid, but she insist to stay" doesn't make sense after the first few lines. But if you have proof of that, it will show in your favor. Washington seems to favor joint (50/50) custody, so if you don't get full custody you'll at least have that. Child support isn't that big of a deal, esp since you seem to be okay with money. I'd be more worried about alimony. Threatening to live in her car sounds unhinged though. You probably have proof that she's crazy.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:46:18 PM No.33357897
>>33357893
Oh nvm, I'm dumb. You relocated without her that's why.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:50:33 PM No.33357917
The case is in CA court though as we've moved to WA 2 months ago.

Anything I could do more to prove she is crazy?
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 8:54:53 PM No.33357928
>>33357917
Text messages, voicemails, emails, videos, medical history, police reports. If you have any of that stuff and she doesn't have any of that on you, then compile and use it to prove she's unfit.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:54:14 PM No.33358610
How do I get her medical history?
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Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:04:24 AM No.33358793
>>33357847 (OP)
At least you have a fucking son I can't get a girl to look my way
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 3:15:14 AM No.33359222
>>33358610
You can subpoena them if they're relevant to your case.
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 2:12:09 PM No.33361080
>>33357847 (OP)
>SWE - Sex Work Educator
>LVN - Lawn Vetting Networker
Just in case anyone was wondering.
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 4:52:37 PM No.33361631
What does your lawyer say? If you don't have one that's mega retarded.
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 5:10:27 PM No.33361680
>>33357847 (OP)
Talk to a family lawyer, not 4chan, you retard.
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 11:00:46 PM No.33363087
Is she hot
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 12:29:31 PM No.33366023
Idk but this reminds me of a LARP I made everyone took serious and I was laughing at the responses cause how high the reply count was. If this IS REAL (emphasis on real) then sorry bro. Women in America get custody regardless of finances. Blame the Statue of Liberty. Idk. I was raised by my mom who lived off welfare even tho my dad was finically stable in the custody battle.
Your child will understand when heโ€™s older, I did. Cause my dad loved me more and that was obvious.