>>33358143 (OP)It's only awful if you are a heartless cretin, or a gullible eternal victim. Both types tend to attract each other like flies around shit. So in that respect, dating can suck just as much for men as it does women. Just in different ways. But in both cases, both the witless immature and naive man or woman have this weird habit of dating trash. The poor little Ms. understood girl keeps walking into users and abusers when it's obvious to everyone else.
And the simp weak man who is crying for love, for some reason, keeps desiring sluts and whores who would happily ruin them if given the opportunity. Notice how many single forever alone guys on here who make 'tfw no gf' threads post OP pictures of narcissistic sluts in a selfie pose wearing next to nothing for easy attention. It's because these sappy men desire trash whores.
Just as many girls who complain about never finding Mr. Right will constantly romanticize absolute motherless asshole cretins.
Truth is, you have a choice whether or not your dating life sucks. Doesn't mean you deserve all the bad shit that happens to you. But it does mean to garner some wisdom and be responsible in who you give yourself to.