Thread 33358151 - /adv/ [Archived: 881 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:09:45 PM No.33358151
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Im 31 and always dated girls my age or older. The last chick I dated is 37.

I met this girl who's 21 and I want her so bad and she's down to meet up. she seems nice and actually smart and very sweet/affectionate. Oh, and she's built like pic related, no exaggeration at all. So at least she doesn't look young. She looks more like 25 because she's extremely curvy.

I know you will just say hit it and quit it, and that could be a possibility, but if she has a great personality I'd prefer to actually date her. It was actually her who just immediately says she wants to get a "taste" of men from my culture so.. maybe that's all she wants

Can anyone who's been in their 30s and dated early 20s give advice. I've had medical issues for 3 years that made my life hell and I only just got better. I need something good to happen so bad.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:11:21 PM No.33358153
If it seems like a risky scenario to you, indulging here may indeed be a risk you'd have to take if you really end up wanting to go for it.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:12:11 PM No.33358154
It just depends on her maturity. That's really it. Most girls that age are annoying or are still in party-mode though.

> It was actually her who just immediately says she wants to get a "taste" of men from my culture
Yeah, she just wants to have fun.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:13:08 PM No.33358158
>>33358151 (OP)
You seem to be making it a problem before anything has happened. Just try it out and see if it works. If it doesn't, now you know. As much as society wants to dictate how you should date, there are not real rules.
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OP
7/13/2025, 10:17:50 PM No.33358173
>>33358153
>>33358154
>>33358158
Hm yeah, I think that's all there is to it. Just don't overthink it and see what happens.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:18:12 PM No.33358175
>>33358151 (OP)
>Can anyone who's been in their 30s and dated early 20s give advice.
advice about what?

Americans act like anything more than an 11 month age gap is a huge multi-generational gap and le creepy.

>t was actually her who just immediately says she wants to get a "taste" of men from my culture so.. maybe that's all she wants
I'd be worried about the culture thing, whatever your culture is.
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Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:26:43 PM No.33358207
>>33358175
It's not even a racial culture it's like saying I wanna meet a southern boy kind of equivalent. So it's not like a big deal.

Anyway yeah we do. but whatever, time to just not give a fuck.
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 10:30:43 PM No.33358220
>>33358151 (OP)
What’s your problem exactly? Just go on the date and see if you get along. Don’t tell me it’s the age gap, because that’s just ridiculous
Anonymous
7/13/2025, 11:26:04 PM No.33358477
>>33358151 (OP)
>Oh, and she's built like pic related, no exaggeration at all
So she's obese with good weight distribution?