How do I focus? - /adv/ (#33358715) [Archived: 441 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/14/2025, 12:32:13 AM No.33358715
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Social Medias such as Tiktok, IG, X, Reddit, etc. that I can doomscroll on and waste my time. I don't know how I can stop myself from using them especially since if I block them on my computer and phone, I'll just end up unblocking them anyways.

I've been jacking off every day, and it sucks. I have no friends. I've been seeing threads about meeting new people and such but idk I feel like friendships just don't last and are superficial most of the time.

I think my problem with porn is that I just fantasize myself being the person giving pleasure to the girl. I know I'm a loser. If I could stop being horny, I would.

I really need to study for exams too. I know if I do well on them, I can be in such a great position to succeed, yet I am still not putting in the effort.

Fuck. I feel like since no one is there to push me, I have to take responsibility for myself, as I should. But I don't. So I end up not being accountable to myself. Fuck.

I know I have a lot of potential. But it's the forbidden p word. I guess I'm worried that all this effort wouldn't get me anywhere in the first place, so why bother. I find that if I can't visualize myself having a great chance of success at something, then I wouldn't put my full effort in pursuing it.

I feel like I have identified what most of my problems are, but I just need to actually be disciplined to act on it.
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Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:05:48 AM No.33358796
>>33358715 (OP)
> I don't know how I can stop myself from using them
>I've been jacking off every day, and it sucks. I have no friends.
>meeting new people and such but idk I feel like friendships just don't last and are superficial most of the time.
>I really need to study for exams too. I know if I do well on them, I can be in such a great position to succeed, yet I am still not putting in the effort.
> no one is there to push me,

>I know I have a lot of potential.
>I know I have a lot of potential.
>I know I have a lot of potential.

Let me be abundantly clear on this. You're a faggot coomer doomscrolling addict. You dont have friends because people dont like to hang out with faggot coomer doomscrolling addicts. You're bar for bar equivalent to a fucking meth head stealing valuables for drug money. Replace items with time and drugs with coomer scrolling. You think these skeleton fucks arent aware of how fucked up their life is? They understand it better than you do.

You have no fucking potential. None. Its a fucking lie you tell yourself to feel better about nutting all over your unwashed laundry. Potential is something that describes people putting in work and effort into a career or skill, which you do fucking neither of.

No one will save you. Nothing you think about during post nut clarity will help you. You will be exactly the same in 10 years time, rotting on your bed, watching whores shake their ass on camera.

Do something now, stop doing this shit NOW or suffer for the rest of your miserable fucking life.
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Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:17:35 AM No.33358844
The thing is though, I go to a prestigious university. So I'm pretty sure even if I do bad, it won't be that bad. But I know I have potential.
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Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:19:36 AM No.33358854
>>33358715 (OP)
I won't read addiction threads because the OP fully understands the problem and nothing that anyone says will make any difference because he's already processed all possible advice. Ignore him and he'll find his own way out, or not.
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:20:25 AM No.33358855
>>33358844
lmao youre a fuckin nigger
Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:21:34 AM No.33358861
>>33358715 (OP)
You're too invested in immediate gratification. The things you want in life (sexual gratification, academic and financial success) are going to be best achieved by working towards long-term goals. If you want to go anywhere in life, set goals and push yourself towards them.
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Anonymous
7/14/2025, 1:27:46 AM No.33358876
>>33358861
Do you have any advice on how to stay disciplined for those goals?
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7/14/2025, 7:37:22 AM No.33360009
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>>33358796
Trvke

>>33358844
Kys