i just started a relationship with a woman and i still have nothing to talk to her and i can't break the silence, i need sincere help, i'm afraid she'll find me boring eventually. all i know how to say to her is "i love you" and worshipping her, is that enough? sorry for the desperation i just want to know if there's something wrong with me and i don't want our relationship to end.

>>33359476 (OP)
I'm sorry but you are too retarded for me to try to help.

try going back to what you guys initially bonded over. how did you make it this far? did you both like movies? whatever it is, try expanding on it

>>33359476 (OP)
To love someone is to desire to understand them. Do you seek to understand your gf?

>>33359476 (OP)
>and worshipping her
How does this manifest itself in reality? Whatever it is, you probably shouldn't be doing it.

For conversation, people typically bring up things that happened that day or recently so that they can get caught up with one another. You can also just ask her what she did today and that gets her to answer with more than a "yes" or "no" and potentially gives you something new to branch off into.

You can also talk to her about making conversation itself. You might find that she doesn't mind you being quiet or she might tell you exactly what you need to know to learn how to talk to her.

It's a learned skill and you just have to take little steps by trying simple things.

>>33359476 (OP)
"How was your day?"

It's not the starting that's harfd The trick is letting it flow naturally afterward, without trying to direct it. Her reply to that opener might lead you to tell about yours, or agree with her that Suzy can be a bitch, or be reminded that you have to go shopping, or whatever stream-of-consciousness the talk takes.

>>33360382
Not him, but if she gives a short response to this like "it was good", that's an opportunity to ask for her to expand on why it was good and what she did.

>>33359476 (OP)
How the hell did you even get together in the first place?

>>33360428
Yes, this needs an answer before we can continue properly.

>>33359476 (OP)
>all i know how to say to her is "i love you" and worshipping her, is that enough?
If you're trying to speedrun killing her attraction to you, then that's perfect.

>>33360258
yes, it is my main focus in every relationship i have.
>>33360310
what "worshipping her" manifests itself is a kind of compliment, you know what i meant right.
>You can also talk to her about making conversation itself.
yea i already talked to her once about it, she doesn't mind according to her, she also doesn't know how to start a conversation, but i still feel like something really wrong with me and i feel like she secretly thinks i'm boring even though she doesn't seem it.
>>33360428
we met on a website that i don't want to specify but she asked me for dating first and so it started. like any beginning of every relationship i've had.
>>33361049
this is what i think, though.

>>33359476 (OP)
this website is for adults only fuck off kid

>>33361206
>we met on a website that i don't want to specify but she asked me for dating first
Ah, so you are dating a biological male.

You sound like an ESL, but whatever this "worship" is, "she" better be doing it back to you. It can't be one way.

>>33361206
She offered to start dating, but you don't have any rapport or connection built. You probably don't even understand why she likes you.
I say this with love, but you sound like a dupe used for ego boosting, resources, or maybe she wants you for the fantasy of you, not who you are, she has no clue who you are. You are being set up for a bad break up.
I know you are probably desperate for affection, but it doesn't seem real anon.

>>33361206
>we met on a website that i don't want to specify but she asked me for dating first and so it started. like any beginning of every relationship i've had.

You are dating a 14yo kid with daddy issues

>>33359476 (OP)
Happened to me
Managed to get a gf when 100% inexperienced, borderline autism levels, eventually she thought I was boring or realized I was too socially inept for her and broke up with me
>all i know how to say to her is "i love you" and worshipping her, is that enough?
No, that is not socially developed people interact. I also just wanted to kiss her and be near her because she was pretty, but I didn't know how to do anything else
>i just want to know if there's something wrong with me
Looks to me you are just inexperienced, not broken
To be honest you very likely will end up single soon bro. The only way out is to actually develop socially...
Interact with people, hold casual conversations, slowly learn how to not be creepy, be actually interested in other people's lives, bring references from your hobbies, activities, opinions, learn how to flirt and how to instill interest, learn when/how to party, when/how to be serious, expose yourself