This is a repost, this is all a true story and I met up with one person involved.

A year ago I met a e-boy in a discord server that has nothing to do with 4chan. After he cut contact with me he would shit talk me in private with his friends.

A few months ago I discovered he made a hate chat/cyberbullying gc about me. He made me lose many friends. This gc consisted of MY friends that he recruited

He kept claiming I was the sociopath in the situation even doe it was all his doing. I thought everyone involved was my friend until he made them pick sides.

He got me permabanned from a community he was in just because I had the nerve to call out his emotional abuse and his actively hiding it.

I was deeply emotionally invested in him and wanted to fly out to him. So the whole situation hurt me deeply.

Can anyone tell me who was the abuser in the situation and why?

Tldr; had a online flirting thing with a e-boy. He made a hate gc/cyberbullying gc about me and kept it a secret for months. I found out about it and called him out in his main community. The community banned me and claimed I was the abuser not him.

>>33359508 (OP)
OP here. Forgot to mention that our last real conversation was him claiming he would ruin my life and post my nudes on 4chan (he doesnt post on 4chan) if I ever messaged him again.

He claimed he was finally done with me, but that's what he said last time when he was still recruiting people into the hate gc. So im not entirely sure hes done witch hunting me.

I heard that he was "done" with me from a mutual fren who showed me da screenshots.

Tldr post nudes or gtfo

>>33359508 (OP)
Hello female anon. I usually do not want to help woman, but I was compelled to advise you in your situation because I experienced something quite similar from heterosexual men. With men, aggression and violence is more directly prominent, where as for your situation, it’s emotional damage and gaslighting.

Chances are that your little e boyfriend wanted to doom you to a life of misery, based on what I read in your post. He is an obvious abuser and he sacrificed you for clout. The hate gc/cyberbullying gc was probably because you were indeed attractive, so he wanted to ruin you because he knew that his own filthy morality wouldn’t have been able to keep you- or he attempted to sabotage your life by being the lover spreading hate into your life. For the nudes thing, it won’t matter even if he does it, don’t be scared because you can probably take him to court if you have the money. If you want to sue for emotional damage, make sure to collect all the evidence through the phone and talk to a lawyer, and ideally make sure your parents get involved. At least you weren’t physically hurt, just emotionally abused. Also, as a man myself, internet communities are notorious for picking on the weak, yet the weakest are usually the most violent because they have no control over their own minds. Often times for men, the violence is racist and is an attempt to make you devalue your own life and self worth. I recommend finding a good boyfriend who will treat you correctly and not abuse you like this e bf. The internet is a dangerous place, and I hope you do not take my recommendation lightly, because there are no others like myself here.

>>33359508 (OP)
>Can anyone tell me who was the abuser in the situation
No, because we've only got your side of the story and not his. If he were telling the story, I suspect we'd get a very different version of events.