I am unironically going insane because I can't get a girlfriend. I need advice on either coping with being single long term or advice on how to practically and pragmatically get a girlfriend.

>>33360188 (OP)
>coping with being single long term
Find a passion to pursue autistically and work out three times a week minimum if you have time.
>how to practically and pragmatically get a girlfriend
You won't learn to get a girlfriend just by reading books or advice online. Try to join organizations in your city where people congregate (gyms, schools, clubs, projects) and try to talk to everyone and get close as much as you can in order to understand your mistakes, the normie mind, and how to manipulate it.

>>33360188 (OP)
Worry less about 'getting' a girlfriend and more about being someone that a girl might be attracted to

Get in shape
Have some goals
Be confident and funny
Have boundaries

>>33360208
>work out three times a week minimum if you have time.
that doesn't make it any better, that just makes you want to fuck and feel good enough to ask and you just get rejected more

>>33360320
Your negative mindset and lack of self respect is the bigger issue

>>33360327
Don't get me wrong, I am going MWF, I started this year. I'm just saying it hasn't helped me the loneliness one bit. I walk out of the rec feeling the endorphins and the girls are already there on campus and I feel confident about making waaay stupider moves than when I was depressed. It's not a good cope

>>33360317
This is a really bad idea. You don't "attract" women like a magnet. They don't approach. It is imperative that you approach women and actively seek them out

>>33360188 (OP)
How would one go ironically insane?

>can't get a girlfriend
Why can't you? What prevents you?

>>33360320
Why ask how to cope if anything that would make you feel better is a bad thing according to you because it will lead you to ask girls out? Just don't.
>>33360350
Women do approach most of the times, even I, a kissless incel, have been approached by women.

>>33360188 (OP)
I absolutely understand you OP. i was in this situation.
I am not gonna tell you how i got out, instead I'm gonna tell you what IMO makes sense.
You say, you were cold approached by girls but you still fucked up ( I can relate).
You might be like me and not really enjoy the company of other people.
One advice I can give you is to talk to a lot of people and listen to them. You lack the knoledge to influence their emotions.
Or maybe you're just ugly (idk i'm no social genius), I just hooked up with a few women.

>>33360350
Im not saying he shouldn't go out and approach and be forward etc.

I'm saying he should prioritise being attractive while doing that

>>33360188 (OP)
Eventually as they get older and the magical charm of youth wears away, and you realized they only chose other boys for silly shallow reasons, and that you only love them for silly shallow reasons you become disillusioned with the whole thing and just want to be happy.