One of my coworkers that’s pretty attractive has shown interest in me the last few months. She playfully told me “You wouldn’t want to drink with me because I’d probably flirt with you.” And other things that could be dismissed as playful but still suggest something more. Recently I’ve hung out with her at her place and she touched my arm and opened up about a lot about her life situation. I’m torn although on if this is because she’s lonely and needs a friend or if she genuinely is attracted to me. I haven’t made any move to her whatsoever besides texting her back and coming over when she invites me and this is easily the most attractive girl that’s made effort to ask what I’m doing and make plans with me ever.

I’m apprehensive because she hasn’t graduated high school and seems pretty immature despite being 2-3 years older than me (I’m 21).

I’ve talked to my brother about it and he says that it’s an awful idea and that it’s definitely not anything I should get involved with especially considering how she seems to lack agency. I feel like he might view me as immature if I end up messing around with someone like her.

My friends all are basically saying that I have it in the bag and that I should just fuck her and lose my virginity but honestly I don’t know, I do think she’s attractive but I definitely wouldn’t want anything long term with her and I feel like if she’s interested she definitely would see that with me, also I feel like I might struggle with eventually ending things with her if we do get into a relationship which is also making me not want to pursue her at all.

Should I listen to my friends and just have lose my virginity? Every time I hang out with them the topic inevitably comes up and they keep asking me why I haven’t done it yet.

>>33360423 (OP)
Just do it. Fuck it. Ask her out for drinks and see what happens.

>She definitely wants something serious
Yeah, that's what I thought when a girl texted me first, showered me with compliments and initiated everything. She didn't want anything serious at all.

So go for it, but remember, NEVER chase and NEVER simp. If it feels one-sided at any point then you NEED to withdraw your effort and attention. Good luck anon.

>>33360513
Thank you bro, lowkey next time at work I’m gonna ask her to hang out again then I’ll just see what happens then

>>33360748
No worries. Do not ever forget the last point I made anon, it's the difference between getting strung along and feeling like shit or having standards and feeling good about things, even if they don't work out

>>33360423 (OP)
>I definitely wouldn’t want anything long term with her and I feel like if she’s interested she definitely would see that with me

You're not basing this off of anything. Don't get cold feet because you think you have to marry every bitch that wants to fuck you.

tldr
>fuck coworker
so, you want to shit where you eat?
bad idea. when/if it goes sideways, how will you or she cope? one of you is going to leave the workplace.
if you or she is soon leaving the job/workplace you currently are, then i guess it is ok.
imagine you break up on bad terms and then you have to see her the next few months, years, every day at your job

>>33360513
>Yeah, that's what I thought when a girl texted me first, showered me with compliments and initiated everything. She didn't want anything serious at all.
It's bullshit isn't it? Women are hardwired in a way that's complete nonsense. This is why men die earlier.

>>33360423 (OP)
>I’ve talked to my brother about it and he says that it’s an awful idea and that it’s definitely not anything I should get involved with especially considering how she seems to lack agency.
Your brother is right. Listen to him. Absolutely nothing about this situation is a good idea.