I'm 19, male. It's already week 3 of summer break and I haven't been to a single party, meetup, club, whatever. Been that way since I hit the teenage, the best years of my life.

How over is it at this point?

>>33362890 (OP)
You're still a child relax your life hasn’t even begun yet

>>33362890 (OP)
Invite your friends and go to Balaton or something

>>33362890 (OP)
>I haven't been to a single party, meetup, club, whatever

Do you actively talk to people, ask about others etc or do you expect everything come to you with no effort.

>>33363070
>Do you actively talk to people, ask about others etc or do you expect everything come to you with no effort.

Well yes

>>33363055
>You're still a child relax your life hasn’t even begun yet

how come the others are fully enjoying it?

>>33362890 (OP)
>how over is it at 19
Not at all. Youre 19. Youre a child. I know you dont like the sound of that but in 10 years you'll agree.
However if you go down this teenaged "wahh Im having a rough patch my life's over" temper tantrum rabbit hole, youre gonna needlessly waste a fuck tonne of time over shit that isnt that dramatic. Years you will not get back.
Quit being a fag

>>33363150
Do you ask them what they're plans are, do you try and make plans with them? clearly not.

Others are enjoying it regardless of going to parties, meetups, clubs etc. Your priorities are messed up but it takes time and experience in life to really understand that

>>33362890 (OP)
Are you afraid of talking to people?

>>33363166
kinda yes

>>33363201
If you keep talking to people when you're uncomfortable it will get very easy over the years.
Luckily, you are 19 so if you take charge now you will be in a great position some time in your 20s.
Im in my mid twenties but I was like you at 19. I thought I could survive university by never talking to people if it made me uncomfortable. That just brought me pain and depression.
The best thing to do is to start talking to strangers and to feel that anxiety every time now. You must do it.
Why are you afraid of people? What are you thinking?

>>33363220
>Why are you afraid of people? What are you thinking?

That they actually don't give a fuck what I'm talking about. That the moment I open my mouth only autistic bullshit comes out and I'll make a fool out of myself. That despite the fact that I'm talking to you and we're both having a good time, nothing will come out of this. You will forget me the moment I'm gone.

My neighbor at my school desk, funny guy, party guy, I talk to him, we have a laugh, never invites me along.

My "best" friend former desk neighbor, also a party guy, never invites me anywhere, I only get to hear the stories.

I'm always the second choice, a year ago I was pretty extroverted, it brought me absolutely nowhere. I just made a fool out of myself.

>>33363244
>That they actually don't give a fuck what I'm talking about
Yes, this does happen but so what? Nobody has ever liked you?
This worry with other people is a reflection of what you think of yourself. You have issues with your self image and its hard to connect with other people like that.

Do your parents know about these feelings?

>>33363266
>Do your parents know about these feelings?

The never-getting-invited-to-anything ones, or the self-hatred-ones?

>>33363287
If your friends invited you would you go?

>>33363300
yes of course!

>>33363308
Why don't you ask them to go?

>>33362890 (OP)
>single party, meetup, club,
Why are these important things to you?
Teenage years are important but why not use it for hobbies and excercise? And to cultivate yourself?

>>33363375
>Why don't you ask them to go?

I asked them pretty often, but the difference is, they get invited to parties, while I don't. They could bring me along, just once, but they don't and there's nothing I can do about this. Yes, we three can have a good time together, but we're just three guys, nothing happens. Everything I propose gets immediately shot down for stupid reasons.

>>33363517
If they're really friends worth keeping you should tell them that

>>33363524
I have no one else. They give me the illusion of being important, but I know that they don't really give a fuck about me. I am a nobody to them.

I tell them nearly every time, nothing comes out of it. Nothing. What should I do? There's no way I can force them.

>>33363538
You should try making new friends. You should deal with your social anxiety. You will have many great times but it may be hard at first.

>they give me the illusion of being important.
Do you think you're not important?

>>33363578
>Do you think you're not important?
Well I'm important to myself, since I am myself and without me I couldn't do the things I enjoy doing.

But I'm not that terribly important to other people. Would I've been a different man, things would be different. Probably.

>>33363517
>the difference is, they get invited to parties, while I don't
between 18-25 there is no "invited to parties" you just hear about a thing and then go

>>33363682
Do you think your parents arent going to help you?

>>33363696
>you just hear about a thing and then go
How come I never hear about this stuff? How come? How come the news always bypass me?

>>33363700
How should they?

>>33363710
By giving you advice maybe

>>33363710
>how come the news always bypass me
Because you don't talk to people. You expect things to come to you. Nobody cares about you. You have to take what you want yourself.

>>33362890 (OP)
You're only 19. You're still young. And most of the people you'd meet at parties suck anyway. If you're hellbent on it, just crash some parties and talk to people.

>>33363730
>Because you don't talk to people.
Talking to my friends isn't enough?

>>33363740
>just crash some parties
Should I break into random houses hoping there's a party happening?

>>33363157
>Youre 19. Youre a child.
Can you idiots stop with that already? That's an adult.