What should I know about losing my virginity when she thinks I’m fairly experienced? Any advice?

>>33366849 (OP)
Insert Tab A into Slot B.

>>33366849 (OP)
Be careful where you pause. Say "What is this thing called love?" but not "What is this thing called, luv?"

humping is literally the most straight forward thing on earth. The whole idea that sex is some skillful artistic endeavor is a fantasy of the female mind as well as small dick cope from men.

If a woman is in love with you, your haphazard humping will be seen as some "raw animalistic passion". Or your slow awkward humping will be encoded in her mind as your "delicate mastery and intentionality" or whatever the fuck.

Just literally dont care about her or her pleasure or anything. Do what YOU want to do.

>>33367146
good advice, thinking of sexual performance makes it even worse

>>33366849 (OP)
>What should I know about losing my virginity when she thinks I’m fairly experienced?
You should probably know that there is 0% chance that she won't realize you're a virgin within about 2 minutes tops.
If you care about her, it's best to be honest or at least honestish about ("It's been a while").
If you don't care about it, enjoy the experience and pray she won't out you publicly for sucking.

My $0.02: the hole is lower than you think it is.

>>33366849 (OP)

Start by fingering her to locate the entrance, and then use your hand as a guide to help guide your penis in

Visit Pornhub and look for tutorials on how to make a girl squirt, and try those techniques when you have sex with her

Dont cum fast— just goon a lot before sex

Thrusting is easy—just grab her legs or waist and pull in and out instead of relying solely on your hip movement

>>33367045
there's also Slot C

>>33366849 (OP)
do a lot of foreplay
if you just spend like 45 min kissing her neck/lips, sucking her tits, running your hands up her legs, massaging her clit, etc then you will instantly skyrocket to the 80th percentile of sex-having men

>>33367146
>Just literally dont care about her or her pleasure or anything. Do what YOU want to do
uh yeah but you gotta make her cum

>>33367146
>Just literally dont care about her or her pleasure or anything. Do what YOU want to do.
Great advice on how to get one night stands

>>33367890
Says who?

>>33366849 (OP)
>Any advice?
Stop being a fucking idiot and TELL HER you're a virgin. This will A: make her feel really special about being your first time, B: give you a legit excuse for being terrible at sex, and C: encourage her to tell you what to do, which will make it so much more fun and less stressful for you. (Yes, I'm speaking from experience).

If you don't tell her, then she will conclude that you are terrible at sex despite being experienced and then give up on you.

>>33368758
>encourage her to tell you what to do, which will make it so much more fun and less stressful for you.

I told mine, then she just let me do my thing and later said I didn't really nee dany directions apparently.
What works really well is being curious, exploring her body and experimenting with what turns her on, what >>33367325 said is true. Focus on the fact that you have a naked woman to play around with in front of your finally. No need to stick it in immediately.
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>>33367172
Not if she does cowgirl and gets herself on the dick

>>33366849 (OP)
Just don't do what this retard says >>33368758
Nothing irks girls more than virgins, especially if they're older.

>>33366849 (OP)
you were supposed to have it as a teen
you will have stage fright.

trim your fingernails to be as smooth as possible if you want to finger her

>>33366849 (OP)
If you bust quick, just tell her its been a while and she got you good. Its an excuse and flattery rolled in 1. Just to have it in the back pocket.

>>33372756
>tfw kept nice nails and made my gf bleed consistently when i fingered her
>pretty sure it was me but i think she thought it was her fault
>tfw she broke down crying when it happened on valentines day
It was never said aloud, but I suspect thats part of why we broke up

>>33372773
>made my gf bleed consistently when i fingered her
that sucks Orlock, i feel for you

>>33366849 (OP)
Tell her you're a virgin, you'll regret keeping it a secret, I did.

>>33366849 (OP)
Do foreplay first. Kissing, undressing etc, get each other in the mood.

>>33367172
i lost mine pretty late and she had no idea lol
i don't get why some people make it sound like thrusting is rocket science

>>33366849 (OP)
Don’t do it anon, just tell her and be confident about it. If she doesn’t want to stick around you will be better off. I lost my virginity like this and got nervous that the condom had broke not realizing she had finished on me, and she got so mad in my change of behavior that she stormed out. It messed me up a lot. It did help with confidence because I know what to do now, but it gave me a lot of abandonment issues that I never had before. If I could go back I wouldn’t do it again.
>>33367146
Putting it in is actually harder than I thought it would be. I’ve needed help every time I’ve had sex. I was surprised that I didn’t have any issues with finishing too fast, so there’s that. Anon is right though; the battle is mostly mental. If she’s lust after you it doesn’t matter what you do; if she isn’t, you will never be able to do enough.
>>33367172
> the hole is lower than you think it is
This also surprised me.

>>33372832
Would only tell her after

>>33372773
Thanks anon now i have a new fear

>>33367146
>Just literally dont care about her or her pleasure or anything. Do what YOU want to do
Not op but I'm in the same situation (I came here to create this exact thread) and even though I understand that no, it doesn't work that way and that would be a recipe for disaster for a virgin in their 20s, I kinda get the point this anon makes here.
You don't have to fall to the other extreme of being super nice, super concerned about her and being a gentleman bordering on white knight, it's even understandable if they're both teenagers, but a guy in his 20s acting like that must be pretty embarrassing for the girl during casual sex.
It doesn't help that in my country there are hundreds of women who are actually pretty and hot tweeting about how the best fuckers are from a sector of society here that is very decadent and disgusting (worse than niggers in the USA), because they don't care about the girls.
Im still a virgin but that's my analysis after reading these kind of threads and information regarding this

>>33367890
Nonsense

>>33372773
Good lord dude, trim your fucking nails you disgusting animal